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Did you learn anything new about dementia?
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Note to Amy: I'm sure you did not mean your comment to be read as all-encompassing, and since I've not read the book, I cannot be fair with respect to that. However, I can say that our marriage is not "full of fighting," in case it might sound like that to someone who first encounters a loved one with dementia.
I do know my good friend's father also had dementia, and the police would have to call her when they found him out trying to hitchhike in his underwear. It's not a picnic for anyone who's a caretaker, either.

Yes, I did not know this disease could afflict young people as well.

You are correct...there are some blissfully "happy" people with the disease as well. In my field, I, unfortunately, saw the ugly side (which is why the people were in the care of a facility in the first place). It saddens me that the people who love the "diseased" person are hurt more than the person who has the disease; especially in the later stages, when the person with the disease does not recognize there is anything wrong with them; although, it is scary to them to have people visit and not know who those people are.