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Why Mermaids Sing
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Jonetta
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Mar 07, 2016 06:36AM
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I don't believe that children of the aristocracy were loved and cherished the way they are today. They were just a means to continue a legacy. Their fathers' self preservation bore that out. These men had so little empathy.
The fathers in this story sickened me. And though Hendon has made many mistakes where Sebastian is concerned, I can't help but compare his actions in the first book to these fathers. He confessed to those murders to spare Sebastian. Yes, it would also ensure that the title passed to Sebastian but Hendon going to prison (did they hang aristocracy?) would still be a taint. Whatever Sebastian may think, I do believe that Hendon loves him; he's just a member of a society that is not well equipped to show it.
Jonetta wrote: "I don't believe that children of the aristocracy were loved and cherished the way they are today. They were just a means to continue a legacy. Their fathers' self preservation bore that out. These ..."I don't think that one can make generalizations. I'm sure that there were members of the aristocracy who did love their children and didn't view them as extensions of their own egos just like there are regular people today who abuse or neglect their children.
I'm not one to make sweeping generalizations so I apologize for not qualifying that statement and creating the wrong inference. Of course, there were many parents of the aristocracy who loved their children. Unfortunately, quite often they were a means to extend a legacy, as it seemed with these fathers.
Agreed, Jonetta. We're considering the fathers who sacrificed their sons to hide the shame of cannibalism. That was sickening to consider, and we wonder how these individual could have weighed the pros and cons and come up with the choices they made.Once some of the men knew what was going on, how could they live with themselves knowing that all the young people were being hunted down?
Jonetta wrote: "I'm not one to make sweeping generalizations so I apologize for not qualifying that statement and creating the wrong inference. Of course, there were many parents of the aristocracy who loved their..."No worries, Jonetta and I totally agree that in many cases the aristocracy viewed their children as extensions of themselves and not as people in their own right.

