Clean Romances discussion
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I have one coming out later this month, too, called Queen in Exile.
Donna wrote: "Most true fantasy writers are clean; they rarely have sex and only a few have bad language. Lynn Kurland has a wonderful fantasy series out that has strong romantic subplot. (She's a fantastic medi..."
I disagree here, slightly, because there is a lot of fantasy with sex in it and some can be violent/brutal, too. I'll look through my book lists and my daughter's for some suggestions. The first that come to mind are Chalice, Sabriel, Howl's Moving Castle.
I disagree here, slightly, because there is a lot of fantasy with sex in it and some can be violent/brutal, too. I'll look through my book lists and my daughter's for some suggestions. The first that come to mind are Chalice, Sabriel, Howl's Moving Castle.
Just thought of another: Sun and Moon, Ice and Snow. There is also a thread about clean YA here in this group.

In the past ten years, mainstream romance has added more and more sex. I think readers who don't like that much sex still buy their favorite authors' books and skip the sex, or give up and go to YA and/or inspirationals. I think part of the growth in the YA and inspirational book market is due to the increase in mainstream sex.
I also think there are readers out there like me who like books without the sex but don't want to read about teenagers or don't care for religion in their romances.
New York will tell you that sex sells. In some cases, yes. But you can't convince me that every reader who buys a book by her favorite mainstream author is reading all the sex.
Which is why we're here. **grins**
My two cents.
Linda

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Linda wrote: "Scanning through these messages has confirmed what I've thought for a while: there are a lot of readers our there who want romances about adults that do not contain sex.
In the past ten years, mai..."
Here here, Linda! :-)
In the past ten years, mai..."
Here here, Linda! :-)

that's what I was thinking! When I was younger and a little more (ahem) naive, I thought "All fantasy authors are just like JRR Tolkien! Practically zero romance!" But apparently the WHEELS OF TIME series and some other ones out there (Somebody RR Martin, I think) are really raunchy.
The best fantasy series I can think of (and I cringe at raunchy stuff) besides JRR Tolkien or CS Lewis (Narnia & Space Trilogy) would be more towards the realm of middle-grade YA: Rick Riordan, Lloyd Alexander, Garth Nix, Christopher Paolini, Patrick Carman... but not all folks might want to read authors with younger target audiences...
WHERE exactly is the line between "Christian fiction" romance and just basically good-clean secular stuff? Do characters have to actually mention "God" and quote scripture for it to be Christian fiction?--I don't really read that genre but I'm wondering what exactly counts as that. I hope my question makes sense!
I ask this more as a writer than as a reader, because the stories I've written (including the one I'm working on) have romantic angles but absolutely no sex at all, but I don't mention any specific Christian themes either (except of course chastity). But then on another board I heard someone say that if a story promotes a kind of "hands off" message it's Christian fiction. Any thoughts on this?

To be considered Christian Lit, I think that religion or the m.c.'s relationship with God needs to be an aspect of the storyline. I don't think that you have to quote scripture necessarily, but religion in some respect is intertwined throughout the story. I've read many books that mention God and church, but are not condsidered Christian fiction because church is something they do and God is someone they believe in, but it is not a signigicant part of the story. It is just who the character is.

In my clean medieval romance, Illuminations of the Heart, the Catholic concept of purgatory and the mercy of God both play a part in my book, but only in so much as Catholicism was the dominant religion in Europe at the time. It's not the main theme of my book (I'm not Catholic myself), so I don't consider Illuminations to be "Christian fiction", even though religion does impact my hero to some extend. I think, as Natalie said above, when the "major part of the plot includes a main character's relationship with God and the development of that", or when a book is written to proselytize a certain religious viewpoint to the reader, then I'd say even though it was "clean", it isn't quite what this group is about. But no, simply mentioning God or going to church, etc, won't get a book kicked off our group bookshelf. :-)

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I agree---I read and reviewed a book this year called THE YEARS OF SILENCE written by an upcoming Muslim woman author in the Middle East. Great, strong, story and clean romantic fiction.

Agreed, girls. Good fiction without sex need not be preachy. I'm a Christian and hopefully secure enough in my faith not to need a sermon in disguise.
That said, everyone to their own taste. It's called freedom.
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Danielle,
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Cheri I'm new here but had to add y two-pence-worth. I'm finding harder and harder to find clean sweet romance. More and more Lust is protrayed as love and that's sad.

I write the "Strangely Beautiful" series, its sweet/sensual Gothic Victorian Fantasy / Paranormal Romance, which I'd say runs a PG-13 rating. :) My first book especially, The Strangely Beautiful Tale of Miss Percy Parker has a YA crossover audience for that very reason. Full of ghosts and greek mythology, there's a lot of religion in the work because of the characters' backgrounds, but I try to make it open and affirming to all walks of faith, life, practice, belief, non-belief, etc. My books are very spiritual, if you will, and with all the ghosts, I also mean that quite literally. :)
I've just started on a new YA series separate from the Strangely Beautiful series, and its very similar in tone. I definately have hit my comfort zone, and it's here.
I'm thrilled to add to my TBR pile here, and hope you'll consider recommending me when someone's looking for a Clean Historical / Clean Fantasy / Clean Paranormal - because The Strangely Beautiful Tale of Miss Percy Parker is all of the above. :)
In the interest of full disclosure, the sequel, The Darkly Luminous Fight for Persephone Parker, does have a couple of sex scenes but they're written with metaphor, without the use of body-part words because those just don't work with the lyrical style I use. As you all know, sensuality is key to illustrate a continuing hero / heroine romantic relationship from book one and show the changes in that dynamic once they're married, but maintaining the sweet/sensual voice is key for me.
If you're interested in a sweet holiday read, "A Christmas Carroll" featured in A Midwinter Fantasy, which continues in my same Gothic Victorian "Strangely Beautiful" world would certainly fit the bill.
Cheers and happy holidays!

I have two very sweet romances published myself: The Role of a Lifetime and Georgie On His Mind
Also, Avalon Books--primarily a library book publisher--publishes only G-rated, family-oriented books. That is one of my publishers, but they publish other genres besides romance.
Happy to be here!
~Jennifer
Welcome, Jennifer! Thank you for adding more clean romance choices to the reading world. We need all we can get! Feel free to add your titles to our group bookshelf. (If you could assign them to a specific shelf--contemporary, historical, etc, that would help group members interested in that genre find them more quickly.) :-)

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Welcome Jennifer. I've read a couple Avalon books, congrats.
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Hi Sandie--
Thanks for asking. Actually, I'm an electronically published author so all of my books are ebooks with the exception of one that also has a print option (JOSETTE).
Here is the link to The Privateer at the publisher that offers many file types like PDF, and on Amazon, but I'm afraid I don't have a print copy. :( Sorry.
Desert Breeze Publishing--The Privateer:
http://stores.desertbreezepublishing....
Amazon--The Privateer: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004...
Curious what you think about The Ivy Tree by Mary Stewart. Would it fit on this group? What about Norah Lofts? How do you feel about her romances?
lavender wrote: "Curious what you think about The Ivy Tree by Mary Stewart. Would it fit on this group? What about Norah Lofts? How do you feel about her romances?"
I haven't read The Ivy Tree by Mary Stewart, only her Merlin trilogy, which weren't romances. The only Norah Lofts book I've read is Esther. It is perfectly clean, but I wasn't sure whether it's quite a romance or not. I have it on my personal bookshelf as a "favorite". Have you read it? If you think it would fit on our group bookshelf, feel free to add it, or I can do so, if you want. Are her other books romances, or more straight historicals, do you think?
I haven't read The Ivy Tree by Mary Stewart, only her Merlin trilogy, which weren't romances. The only Norah Lofts book I've read is Esther. It is perfectly clean, but I wasn't sure whether it's quite a romance or not. I have it on my personal bookshelf as a "favorite". Have you read it? If you think it would fit on our group bookshelf, feel free to add it, or I can do so, if you want. Are her other books romances, or more straight historicals, do you think?
I wouldn't call Esther a romance either. A Calf for Venus, Jassy, Afternoon of an Autocrat and a few others are romances but Norah Lofts romances are not typical as they rarely have a happy ending. They are always clean IMO. Its been quite a few years since I read The Ivy Tree but I thought it was very romantic. I don't like to add it tho as I am not sure it fits here. I could add some Norah Lofts tho if that is OK.
Oh, her other books are a mix. I have read almost all of them but have a poor memory.
lavender wrote: "I wouldn't call Esther a romance either. A Calf for Venus, Jassy, Afternoon of an Autocrat and a few others are romances but Norah Lofts romances are not typical as they rarely have a happy ending..."
Sure, Lavender, go ahead and add Norah Lofts books. I probably should read a few more of them, since I like Esther so much. :-)
Sure, Lavender, go ahead and add Norah Lofts books. I probably should read a few more of them, since I like Esther so much. :-)
Thanks! you will find most of them at second hand book stores but I did get a new copy of The Town House on Amazon.com. I own Esther too. I have just about all of them.

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Linda, I wholeheartedly agree. I wonder if I was the only noticing that mainstream books and even the smaller press tendency to push the more explicit sex books. I'm a big YA fan and I can see why a lot of readers are headed that way and for inspirationals. I haven't read many inspirational books but I have a few on my shelf that I'm eager to get to (including Harlequin's Love Inspired Suspense line -- has anyone read that yet?)
Overall, I don't mind love scenes if they are done in a way that isn't shoved one's face.
YA tends to focus on the story and characterization which can be lacking in the more mainstream romance books. I'm glad I found my favorites as well as this group for clean romances. We certainly need more out there! :-)

Beth
Myra Beth wrote: "I wasn't sure where to post this, but I just wanted to say thank you so much for this group! While I do read Christian fiction, it isn't always my favorite. I do love a good romance, but I really d..."
Welcome to the group, Myra Beth! I'm so glad you found us. If you have any favorite clean romances, please add them to the group bookshelf. :o)
Welcome to the group, Myra Beth! I'm so glad you found us. If you have any favorite clean romances, please add them to the group bookshelf. :o)
Yes, Myra Beth, welcome! You're among many, many others who feel the same way about their romances, as you can tell from our growing numbers. :-) We hope you'll find some great reads here, and as Jaimey said, please share some of your favorite titles with us, too!

Have a great day, everyone!
Happy Reading!
Danielle Thorne

Sounds like a fun group! I'm a fiction author and have just published my contemporary romance novella, The Boyfriend Bylaws. It includes the bonus short story, My Last Blind Date.
Both stories are about women who are looking for love and both are sweet chick lit style reads that are available on amazon.com, barnesandnoble.com, smashwords.com, and allromanceebooks.com.
I look forward to getting to know readers and writers here. It's a fun genre to read and write!! :) Susan
Joyce wrote: "Hi All,
Please don't take this the wrong way...I am an active Christian myself and clearly have nothing against Christian or Inspirational romances!...but please remember that titles that fall str..."
The Boyfriend Bylaws

Susan wrote: "Hi Joyce,
Sounds like a fun group! I'm a fiction author and have just published my contemporary romance novella, The Boyfriend Bylaws. It includes the bonus short story, My Last Blind Date.
B..."
Hi Susan! Welcome! If your novella is a clean romance, feel free to add it to our group bookshelf. Hope you enjoy it here!
Sounds like a fun group! I'm a fiction author and have just published my contemporary romance novella, The Boyfriend Bylaws. It includes the bonus short story, My Last Blind Date.
B..."
Hi Susan! Welcome! If your novella is a clean romance, feel free to add it to our group bookshelf. Hope you enjoy it here!

Very happy to be here!
And we're happy to have you here, Caroline. Feel free to add your romances to our group bookshelf. :-)

Hi Rosina!
There are no requirements to be a MEMBER of our group. It just sounds like your books wouldn't fit on our group bookshelf. But by all means, join us if you'd like! :-)
There are no requirements to be a MEMBER of our group. It just sounds like your books wouldn't fit on our group bookshelf. But by all means, join us if you'd like! :-)

Just wondering but,
Why do your books have to contain any sex at all in them?
Can't you convey to the reader that they were "close" and had a connection without the sex?
I believe the best writers have the talent to engage the reader without going into any details and still get their point across.
I believe that sex is a sacred act and should be treated with respect not shared with others.
The bonds that men and women make together are special and private.
Just my personal feelings, but I think "millions" of people, young and old around the world share my sensitivity to having sex in the books we read and there is money in writing books without "sex", even a teeny, tiny bit.
If an author I have enjoyed in the past starts writing her books with "sex" in them, I don't just skip over the parts, I "skip" over the author and find new authors willing to go the distance and write good quality books. :)
Thanks for listening!

If they're not paranormal, they're usually Christian. I dislike heavily Christian-themed books in general. I'm not religious, never have been, and don't hold myself to all the morals put forth in them. The last Christian book I read informed me every other page that I'm destined to go to Hell. It got old fast.
I have nothing against sex outside of marriage so long as it fits the society the story is set in.
Warrior Daughter by Janet Paisley is set on the Isle of Skye when the Celtic tribes still ruled. All the characters have varied sex lives with members of both sexes, but it holds true to that society. In fact, one of the few bits of information that remain about the character is that she would teach young men "the ways of the thighs".
A lot of romances set in 1700 / 1800s that contain sex out of marriage really bug me because it is a well known fact that a woman's virtue was all she had to secure herself a good marriage and a happy future.
I agree with the idea about the fantasy ones. There are some that are really good with romantic undertones and no sex. Though sex in fantasy also tends to be better for some reason! Wonder why - maybe because the whole plot isn't centered around it.
I recently really enjoyed Juliet Marillier's Heart's Blood. Ok so it has one sex scene but it doesn't go into detail so I count it verging on clean.
I also enjoyed Kelley Armstrong's Chole Saunders trilogy - now this one is clean as it's meant for YA.
Nekropolis by Tim Waggoner was good fun. About a zombie that's falling apart with a touch of romance to it.
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How do you define fantasy and how do you define clean, in this case? I read a bit of YA fantasy and fairy tale re-writes -- just wondering what you might be looking for.