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Dec 03, 2015 05:14PM
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I have a performance tomorrow night, and I am dying of nervousness((if that's even a word...) My current profile picture shows my hairstyle for it.... ((I am going to die!!!!))
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I plan on graduating, then going to college for, either Journalism or Cognitive science. (I'm really struggling on which on I want to do more...Ugh...) I would really like to get married earlier in life, so hopefully I will meat someone in college, then I also want to travel a lot all over the world, have four kids, two boys two girls. (Great minds think alike KitKat...*Winks*) And I'll probably homeschool them or put them on an online school, (Just because of my beliefs) Then hopefully share the rest of my life with my husband and children.
That is a good plan! I hope it works out for you!
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And Skye I think you will do AWESOME!!!! ;D
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well, I definitely need to get into university, from there I hope to get a degree in science and go to medical school, and then i'll have to complete residency. this will take at least 11 years, and by then i'll be 29. seeing as I want to become a doctor, I'll be working for much longer than that. this isn't idealistic for marrying and having kids, so I'm not sure if I'll have a family. if I do end up marrying and having kids (not likely), then I want one boy and 2 girls. or one boy.
@Smiley: that's a great future plan! I hope really hope that it comes true :) Well, I'll post mine later. Gotta think alot and write for this one ;)
Warning: I may get late :P
Skye wrote: "I just want to be a photographer. and finish school"I love photography too! Are u awesome-and-professional type at it???!
Gia wrote: "Skye wrote: "I just want to be a photographer. and finish school"I love photography too! Are u awesome-and-professional type at it???!"
Kinda... R u?
I am not professional. But I can say I am really good at it. I'd message u and learn for photography tips, yeah?! We both can, witg each other.
Great then! :DI look forward to our photography-chats :)
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eat we learn these things about each other. I hope you achieve that future too Sarrah! Skye and Gia! Sarrah and Me! I love how we got two pairs of the same job areas!
Okay, hmmm....So I plan on completing my school with good grades so that I can get scholarship. Then I plan to go for university(really not sure to pursue which field; either journalism or Designing field. Quite confused). It's my big big dream to go to London for studying in university. That has been my dream since i was a kid, like perhaps 10 year old. Then after finishing up my studies, I plan to work and during this time I'll get married(not at very late age. Like 24 or 25) and....have two kids...
Well, now let's see :)
@Smiley:- yeah. But I don't wanna pursue photography as a profession. It's merely my hobby, an interest and it'll go side by side in my life. Not as a job.
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I love that plan!
SmilingDork wrote: "Ah! I getcha now! I love that plan!"
Hehe thnx ^-^
Saarah wrote: "London England, right?"Yeah!! :D lol Which else? ;P
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Okay, the topic is:- How are your social skills? And how is your bonding with your family members?I am jusk a okay person socially. Yep, at school I am known by a lot of people but I am not really quick at interacting with new people. I may take time. If anyone does approach me, I talk nicely and politely but I may be hesitant in starting a convo with a person I have just met once/twice before.
My bonding is good with my siblings(two sis and 1 bro); Mostly with my younger sis :)
I am not much of an open person so I am more close to my mother than everyone else in family, comparitively.
I haven't forgotten this y'all ((; Been busy *hugs* Be back soon friends <3
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mm, with my family, I'm kinda the one everyone goes to when they have a secret or problem, and I'm really close with everyone. I actually never get in trouble, so I hardly get into fights with my parents. it's sometimes a little rough with my sister, but nothing too bad. I connect most with my mom and oldest brother, but my dad's my favourite person in the whole family.
My social skills after you get to know me are fantastic.My bonding with my family members is ok. With my brother, it is horrible, but with my parents it is wonderful.
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My family relationships is nice. I get along awesomely with my siblings (I think it also because we are so close in age. Two years, four years are my brothers who I get along with most. My sister is seven years and we have a very rocky relationship.) My mom is very closely my best friend and she is my go to person for whatever I am in need of. My dad and I have a good relationship not as good as the one with my mom. We have a lot in common but often don't get to do anything. Dad is like the only family member who reads but a lot less since work has picked up. We always recommend each other books.
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@Smiley:- My mom is my best friend in the family too. And unlike you, we siblings have a quite an age difference. Although my siblings are closer to each other more than I am with them. But we get still we get along really good. And oh, the sibling-teasing(which is annoying) and then fights ;P
Everyone does, right?
@Saafia:- yes!! :D
It isn't easier for me to approach people, either :/Aww I totally understand u.
Oh that's sad. Not even with your mother?
Awwh I get ya. Why don't you get a chance?
And, just saying, if you want to get close with yer family why don't you take a step? Like talking and connecting with parents?
(Sorry, if this is too bold)
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Aw y'all!! What terrifically wonderful plans :D xD I pray they come true according to your plans ((;Okay, so question was-
Okay my topic is.......uuummmmm.................... what does your future life look to you. What is your future job plan? Where you are going to live? Having kids and how many? Pets? Tell what you want your future to look like.
Haha, well. It us hard for me to say for I'm totally okay with anything the Lord has planned ((: So um... Let's see how exact I can be ;D
Well, I would love to fall in love and get married early in life. That's a dream. Haha. So main thing would be that I pray God brings me my husband soon ;P (One that actually walks up and starts a conversation because I honestly realized I can't 'ugghhh',xP)
Haha, of course I want to finish high school. I'd like to get a degree perhaps online or at a Tech School. Thinking I will get into Social work, writing, and even a degree in theology. I've thought many a time about mission work, but no thoughts on that as of yet.
After marriage, I want to be a mother. I want a couple of kids of my own and to adopt ((;
I have always wanted a bulldog. So maybe I'll have me one of those :D
I'd love to publish a book, skydive and help whoever I can throughout life. I want to follow the Lord and be there when someone needs me.
So yep... I think I was pretty exact ;D
So next challenge was: Okay, the topic is:- How are your social skills? And how is your bonding with your family members?Uh so...
Social skills. I am a definite extrovert (you all know xP) yet, I also have anxiety problems so I am a bit freakish in a crowd, or in front of people. I feel awkward and strange starting a conversation.
Some times its natural. For instance I can go to the grocery store and talk with tons of people and workers I see there ((; Its like, "Hey how are you?" "You working today?" "Yeah its getting cold outside, Haha." But then.... I have those moments, 'I'm not here... I'm not here....' Haha. Honestly, I can't talk or start a conversation with guys. No matter if I like them or not, if they are around my age I can't talk to them without worrying or nervousness almost paralyzing me. This is very difficult when there is this sweet guy who just smiled at you. Action, 'try a slight smile and look away quickly.'
Although, with saying that, if I meet a guy and he gets to know me and I him, after a bit I'm okay and will talk and talk. Just hard to start a conversation.
Hope that makes sense?
Now, family members. I am so close with all my family members. I love them to death! Me and Mom would be the closest of them all I believe, I tell her everything. Then my Dad, he's always open to questions or just to talk and listen. My brother has always been my best friend, although there are times he makes me so mad. Lol. (Like yesterday, grimaces) But I usually get over it in about a day xP Haha
My little sister is very loud, so she will make me lose it more than anyone but I love spending time with her (((:
And my sister in law is pretty close, although we both have like personalities so they will clash with different opinions so we have to tread lightly at times. My family is the people who knows me most in the world. And actually, y'all know me more than many people.
I have a state of mind that if you ask about me I will go all out to let you in, yet if you don't then I'm not going out of my way.
So, I'm a bit different in personalities so its a bit weird xP
@Ravannah- Quote: someone approaches me, well I can definitely hold my own in a conversation, but if I'm new to a group or something like that, I can be a little socially awkward and just ramble on about books, and other silly stuff (Total nerd) And for some reason I'm just really good at talking to people younger or older then me. When I'm with people my own age, well...That's when I'm known as a socially awkward person. lol.Yes!!!!! I so know that feeling!!! I tend to ramble xP xD
We would love for you to join Safia ((((:
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@Ravanna- Haha, sorry for the story xP xD@Safia- (((;
@Smiling- Thanks ((; Haha, oh my xO Gee, that is so bad when that happens. Like.... :~| ...... Hahaha xP
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@raven should I switch it to 3 series then? I think I'll change it to 3... but anyway I read the first 2 books of starcrossed and from what I remember they were really good! and yes, please nickname me whatever you want!
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@raven should I switch it to 3 series then? I think I'll change it to 3... but anyway I read the..."
Okay, I'll do that tomorrow, because I'm super tired! lol
