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I had a dream..(help!)


I don't think there is a guy alive (unless he is completely without some semblance of heart) that can't be unmanned by a 2 yr old. They are the most adorable and exasperating beings on the planet.
Aquariums... deep, soulful unconsciousness trying to surface - usually associated with "You-Hoo" dreams (aka "Wake the f@ck up and pay attention! And I don't mean physcially.")


And these aquarium dreams are much more than that, Sherrie.

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And, I'm sure I couldn't even pretend to understand any dreams you've had, Matt. They are obviously deeper than anything I have ever experienced, because none of us certainly ever had dark periods in our life that we've had to have the strength to overcome, instead of wallowing in them and spreading dismal crap over everyone we meet.
Tadpole - kitties = squeeeee You have just unmanned us all. ;)

Ah, sorry about the disinterest in children. I'm sure you can pump out enough highly evolved indigo children for the both of us.
Dismal crap? Nah, just realistic. Sorry to impinge on your New Age fantasy, Sher.
By the way, why did your husband stop posting? His posts were some of the most repulsive and unnecessary (read: really fucking sad) things to ever be laid out in this group.

And yes, I should censor myself lest I offend a stranger across the continent!

I simply responded to the extraordinarily obnoxious comment above.

Feathered hair. Ah, I have pictures...bad ones...involving feathered hair...somewhere...

Kids can unnerve any man. It's their child for goodness sake! It's cute when dads go on slides with their kidlets or SLIP n SLIDE!
Yeah, huh?
Sometimes I don't understand a word of your posts, Tanja. Are you sure you're not a robot?
Sometimes I don't understand a word of your posts, Tanja. Are you sure you're not a robot?

Primal scream, primal scream, stomp, tantrum tantrum!!!
Okay, one thing that frustrates the ever living tar out of me is that I can help facilitate other people who are trying to figure out what their dreams mean to them, but when it comes to my OWN dreams, I feel like a ding dong. I draw a blank. I have NO CLUE what they mean until I'm talking to one of the counselors with whom I work and watch his/her face for cues on what's important and what's not... and THEN I can figure them out...
BUT last night's dream left me wishing my stupid alarm clock didn't go off because I was beyond curious about how the dream would play out and I've been obsessing all darned day about what it could mean.
Okay, here goes:
I was living in my mother's home, but it was MY home for some reason. And my mother was living there and my sister (the one who's recently engaged) was too. For some reason, my little sister was in my care... as her 6 year old self. And I was getting irritated with her because she kept borrowing my stuff and misplacing it - namely my CDs.
So I was searching EVERYWHERE for my music - under piles of just... stuff. And every once in a while I'd find some discs, but they'd have data files on them or they'd be hers (clearly NKOTB was NOT mine). And I kept obsessing about the Coldplay CD that someone had given me, aware of the fact that in my dream as well in real life (because I'm typically aware that I'm dreaming when I'm in it), I can't STAND Coldplay. But I really, REALLY just HAD to find that CD. I couldn't even remember who gave it to me (I have no such CD in real life, by the way)! And I finally DID find it.
About the time I found my CD, an ex-BF (the most recent one) showed up at the door of my
So, I invited him into the house where my sister (who's still 6 years old in my dream) grilled him on his intentions and my mother and friends joined in. And he handled their skepticism with grace. I could tell they were reluctantly warming up to him, too. And while this was going on, I went to find my Coldplay CD... and waited for a break in this interrogation to give it to him. For some reason, I knew it was something I had to do.
I also had another CD in hand that was one I really adored (and I can't identify it now and have been obsessing about this detail since I woke up - I think it was a mix someone gave me - a normal silver looking one with gold block lettering).
So the rest of the dream was about him proving my doubts wrong and being perfect and wonderful while I waited for him to disappoint me like he always would.
And then my alarm went off. W. T. F.


You don't have a boyfriend currently, but if your old one would come back and prove himself, you would welcome him in.
I don't know what the significance of the Coldplay CD is. :)

I know when I have dreams that I know have some significance, but I can't figure it out, I try to figure out each piece of the dream as if it were me, cause everything in your dream represents a part of you. The house, the sister, the boyfriend, the Coldplay CD (well, maybe not that one *snerk*)... and let it sink into your subconscious with the questions of why? Sometimes the answers sorta pop up later on.
It def is your own self trying to work through some stuff, bringing it to light. But sometimes overthinking it just won't do the trick.

I already knew that part - everything being some aspect of me. I think I need to copy and paste that onto a piece of paper and then dissect it and get back to all of you.
Just looking at it in print helps. I'm pretty darned sure the piles of paper represent work right now - my office is full of piles EVERYWHERE. I've got piles covering the two desktops that aren't even getting used right now.
I'll figure this out. Oi. Check ya laterr.

I work at a dog daycare/boarding facility and when I first got the job, all I dreamt about was dogs....all of them barking and running around. I don't have those dreams anymore, but a work environment like that can be a real shock to the system.

Does this mean I'm a nerd?

*sitting in stuffy chair, looking through nose-perched glasses writing notes in lap*
Do you have any deep seated traumatic memories from childhood that feature argyle in them? How does that make you feel, hmmmmm?

Oh, I also dreamt I was in a bathtub with two friends. No water, clothing, and all. It was so much fun!


Interestingly enough that very evening I ran into his family on the elevator at work--they were just leaving from a visit with him. I immediately told them about my dream. The daughter burst into tears and gave me a big hug, saying that me telling her that gave her so much hope for the future. I would never claim to be psychic and honestly I do not know what ever became of that gentleman, but it made me feel good.

Books mentioned in this topic
The Sandalwood Tree (other topics)The Interpretation of Dreams (other topics)
Let the Great World Spin (other topics)
Authors mentioned in this topic
Henning Mankell (other topics)Fox Butterfield (other topics)
William Greider (other topics)
I just didn't expect him to let Sophia leave his attention for even two seconds because he was watching her like a hawk up until that moment... and then while he was scrambling to get food up off the floor, she started throwing other stuff down at the floor... ketchup bottle - gone, salt shaker... gone, napkin holder -caught it! We scooted everything across the table away from her. I mean, seriously, Gus NEVER loses his shit and he totally looked like he was about to pull his hair out and tear up.