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Yes, that's what puts me off private groups.

I love it too; actually, I love lots of his quotes. But I sub-quoted it. The real quote is "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT PEOPLE LIKE ME AS A MEMBER".
Telegram to the Friar's Club of Beverly Hills to which he belonged.

But I've never actually seen all these self-promoters here, so I guess they must get deleted pretty quickly.

I love it too; actually, I love lots of his quotes. But I sub-quoted it. The real quote is "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RES..."

I love it too; actually, I love lots of his quotes. But I sub-quoted it. The real quote is "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RES..."
Ha ha, I love it!

I also find that whenever I become interested in a private group and think, oh maybe it's not too elitist after all, I try to look at the threads and discussions - but of course you can't!
Selection is a two-way process. How can anyone decide if it's for them or not? And what would be the motive in joining? No, I think we've got it about right in "All About Books" and hope there will be no move to change its status :)

But yes, you can only really decide if it's right for you after you join - although I'd say the same applies to the open groups, to some extent. It's only when you get to interact with people that you get a sense of the dynamics and whether it's for you or not. And exclusivity can happen in open groups too, of course, in different ways. Sometimes the worst are the really open ones with no moderators (not seen this here, but on other sites).

Yes, that's what puts me off private groups."
Very happy to hear that, Shirley. I joined AAB because it was not a private group.
And as for privacy, if you want that, you can protect your profile. This is the Internet, Goodreads is not private and thankfully AAB is not private.
Think I'd have to jump ship if we became that type of group because I do NOT want other people picking the type of person I can communicate with.**
**TO BE CLEAR: Absolutely no disrespect or slight intended for our wonderful, capable and lovely Mods who make sure our group runs fairly, efficiently and without judgment.

I do think that having to apply to join a group is intimidating and it took me a while to gear myself up to do it. And I'm not usually easily intimidated. I wouldn't like this group to become private and by application. I can imagine that this would be even more intimidating for those for whom English is not their first language.

Everyone's different, and personally I wouldn't automatically assume negative things about anyone who starts a private group, because that just becomes a different sort of snobbery.


Ah, well that's one question I can answer, a few of us mods got together to write what it says on our home page, "we're here because..." It might seem general and non specific but that's because we wanted the group to be inclusive and friendly, and where we can chat about what we are reading and get to know one another. What I love about this group is its international flavour, which adds a richness to this group not easily found in other groups where the members are all from the same country.

Re focus and dynamics, this is a warm and welcoming group, with wonderful moderators, and the dynamics of the group develop and change with the membership. And now I'm getting off this discussion, to leave the thread for new questions for the mods!

But is it really such a huge problem, how many posts do we actually get each week? (I haven't counted). We all pretty aware of it and none of us has any hesitation in bringing those posts to the Mods notice. They can just flick them.
I often get book invites to read a novel written by someone who has recently friended me. I just block them. Simple as that. The same can be done with AAB, no second chances, just out!

I like international groups. The ones I'm active in are all international.

I think part of my reason for applying was curiosity - I'd never joined a group where you have to apply and I was curious whether they'd accept or reject me and what criteria they would use. I figured I'd just be myself and they could take or leave me - I pointed out that I enjoy YA as well as literary fiction and classics (because of the group's emphasis that it doesn't read YA), and I think I mentioned that I'd read Twilight! Hehe - I figured if they rejected me for that, they'd be the kind of snobs I wouldn't want to join anyway!

But is it really such a huge problem, how many posts do we actually get each week? (I haven't c..."
Yes, that is why I initially raised the possibility of vetting, because there was a discussion about an increase in self-promotion, and several people seemed bothered by it and were wondering how to stop it. I didn't realise at that time that only private groups could vet new members.
As I said, I haven't even seen these self-promotion posts, so I'm imagining they get dealt with pretty promptly.

Here it is: https://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/...
It is in the folder "Upcoming Monthly Reads".

Lol :D

LOL! I have changed it to plain 2014 :)


It can be changed, but then the home page gets too long. My best advice is to use the search box (on the right just above the ads) or do as Sandy did and ask here.
Gill wrote: "I was wondering if there is any way of keeping more than seven threads belonging each heading showing on the main screen? I think maybe one reason people keep posting new threads is that it's not o..."
I'm not sure, think that is the layout of most groups on goodreads. I do get what you mean, when I first joined the old group I was a bit nervous about starting new posts in case they were already there and I wasn't sure how to work the goodreads groups, it wasn't until I took the time to really look over all the threads that I got how it worked. I would suggest writing up a post where new members can go if they are looking for something, for example where to look for recommendations. But if you are saying it might not obvious to many people, it might just be a waste of time.
I'm not sure, think that is the layout of most groups on goodreads. I do get what you mean, when I first joined the old group I was a bit nervous about starting new posts in case they were already there and I wasn't sure how to work the goodreads groups, it wasn't until I took the time to really look over all the threads that I got how it worked. I would suggest writing up a post where new members can go if they are looking for something, for example where to look for recommendations. But if you are saying it might not obvious to many people, it might just be a waste of time.


That sounds a good idea amber.
amber wrote: "It might be a good idea to point out somewhere that clicking on the name of a folder will bring up the list of threads in that folder."
That sounds like a good idea.
That sounds like a good idea.


For example if I look up "have you read" I either get 4,000 posts by using the all posts option, or I get the What Have You Just Read thread by using the titles only option, but I don't get 'Has Anyone Read This Book, which is the thread that is most like what I would be looking for when searching for have you read.


Just finished doing that Gill!

Thanks, Leslie! I just saw your other comment and was about to delete mine! So exciting!

I think it didn't show until I put a post in it as I couldn't see it either!

I think it didn't show until I put a post in it as I couldn't see it either!"
Great!


Bette, you should also ask in the thread (after all, people reading it should have a vested interest in volunteering!).

I've edited the title to show two years, but don't seem to be able to add it to the "2015 challenges" folder without it disappearing from the 2014 one. Is there a clever way of duplicating it do you know? Or should I just move it quickly on December 31st?!

I was thinking we have a seasonal poet, would you guys be open to the idea of doing a seasonal author as well? I understand though if you guys don't want to do it. I know it might be extra work. I thought it might be a good idea to broaden some member's horizons, another outlet to try books by authors they might not have heard of.

Hmmm... as an ongoing feature? or just for the holiday season?
I think our group has quite a lot of official books going on but an unofficial 3-month "seasonal" author readalong might work. I do like the author as opposed to title idea, as we can all hear about different books by the same author...
Leslie wrote: "Alannah wrote: "I was thinking we have a seasonal poet, would you guys be open to the idea of doing a seasonal author as well? I understand though if you guys don't want to do it. I know it might b..."
As an ongoing feature, pretty much the same way as the seasonal poet works. Four different authors a year.
As an ongoing feature, pretty much the same way as the seasonal poet works. Four different authors a year.
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