Relief discussion
Self Harm
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Arwen
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Jul 09, 2013 03:28PM
is there anyone?
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I used to but it's been 6 weeks
That's good:) it's still a battle for me
I started when I was 13, till now. I'm 25 now, I have a lot of scars, and now y blood circulation is messed up.
Men cause a lot of problems, they have been abusive, and a lot of other reasons.
Ok, I know I don't know any of you in real life, but it seems to me like you need help for your situations. I don't know what you're going through, and you don't have to tell me if you don't want to, but cutting is a dangerous thing. You need to talk to any trusted adult about this. And you need to do it soon. I don't mean to be pushy here, but I've seen what can happen to people who do this. I'm keeping you and other people who do this in my prayers. And Arwen, I'm glad you stopped.
hey guys out in the real world we may hate each others guts and feel awkward if we meet. but here we are like a family we are friends and we help each other. I want to help as much as i can, i want you guys to feel welcomed and at home here. i want you guys to feel like you could tell anything. P.s whats said in here stays in here.
Thanks guys. I am an adult i'm 25. People just love to walk all over everything I do, and ruin things for e, ruin my happiness. I started cutting due to bullying, and being molested at school. Then other guys did the same thing again, I've only been with one guy, but he always pressured me into every time. I've been single since then. I'm friends with a guy, but in love with him at the same time, till he broke my heart, he said I was boring for not sleeping with him at the time, and all he wanted was a one night stand. He said he loved me, but was having one night stands and texting other girl besides me, and bragging about it. So he ignored me for 2 years, now this year he decided to talk to me again, but started pressuring me again. Recently he kept saying that he was broken-hearted over a girl so I said fair enough, till I found out the girl is lot younger than he is. He said he hated the girl, but he still slept with her, and has a broken heart but he hates her so it makes no sense. Now I get the feeling that I will be second best to this girl, when he hated her. I would never be good enough to be his girlfriend, so you go off with someone younger than me? How dare he! I deserve a lot better than being second best to someone he didn't even like. I feel like the my heart is breaking again, like the first time it did, because he was the first guy to be nice/affectionate so maybe i confused friendship with love, but he said we were friends but he kissed me a lot at the time.. We had an argument about this girl, and other stuff yesterday on the phone, later on when I went to bed I couldn't sleep, so I was crying for awhile, he really hurt yet again, for the millionth time..I feel like i'm already dead inside, I want to cut, I just wanna die so I won't have any problems anymore. I'm not gonna kill myself, but I'll probably self-harm.
DO NOT CUT. please Carly!he isn't worth it. I know it is so hard. but please! let us help!
If you don't mind me saying but he sound like a manwhore and a bitch. I am really sorry if you still like him, but he has NO right to treat you like that. I would give you a hug but i'm a little far away. so here is a hug over space *hugs you*
Thanks guys. I find it hard not to feel depressed or suicidal when things like this happen with men. I've felt that way for most of my life, I feel really down today. After the argument we had yesterday, when I went to sleep, I cried for awhile. I'm crying a bit now, i'm really down, I feel low, and worthless and i'm not good enough for any man so far.
Thank you, for listening to me, I really appreciate it. I want to help as many people here with similar problems to myself as I can, I like helping people.
thank you Carly i hope you feel better now that you have let some of it out :)
Just made a cut on my wrist if I do feel and the answer is a BIG YES! My friend told me that I was shallow and cold to the point where I don't care about other people's feeling but the real thing is that I'm cautious of trusting any people.
... You're not making any more cuts, are you?
I just wanted to make it clear to everyone, that I self-harm, (but not for attention) If other people draw attention to it, then there is nothing I can do about that..I usually self-harm to relieve stress and have control.
i cut to relieve what i thought was pain, my friends were ditching me. i felt my parents were disappointed and preferred my brothers. I hated myself. .i seriously wanted to die. but things have changed. theY can for you guys as well. look forward not back and to the side. look at the bright side :)
My family are the same. My friends were cutters as well, sometimes I thought they were cutting themselves so they could relate and we would all have something in common. I hate it when people know I self-harm and they start to self-harm because they "think it's cool" it feels like their mocking me, plus a girl that used to make fun of me, is now dressing differently. So maybe if she bothered to even try to get on with me, then we might have been friends.. There was another people that copied me by wearing the exact same Slipknot hoodie/coat that I wore to school. I used to wear Dr. Marten's black boots, just like Brandon Lee did in the film The Crow.
PLEASE DONT BE SUCH BOOBIES....!!!! I REQUEST YOU ALL GUYS IT'S HORRIBLE AND NOT AT ALL ACCEPTABLE NEVER EVER HARM YOURSELF IT DOES NO GOOD!!!!!!!! PLEASE TRY TO FIGHT AGAINST PROBLEMS BUT NEVER BREAK YOUR CONFIDENCE AND HAVE FAITH IN GOD...!!!! THERE'S ALWAYS A WAY....!!! SHARE YOUR PROBLEMS WE ARE ALL FRIENDS... IM WITH YOU ALL..... BUT NEVER HARM YOURSELF... YOU ALL ARE PRECIOUS ...!!! ONE OF A KIND BE PROUD TO BE "YOU"...
i'm sorry. i feel a lot of the time that g-d failed me. He was supposed to be there. he was supposed to give me a sign that things would get better. he just stood and watched tho. Adonai didn't help me. Adonai, you could say i'm giving him the cold shoulder
Make sure your cuts don't get infected. It's very important. Be careful.
Damn it, I was cutting earlier while having a shower and I slipped, and now my foot hurts :(
I am here if you need to talk. Did you clean your cuts?
well i had a shower, so i kept the water running to clean them. I don't think i'm going to get the job i wanted :/
i just feel down at the moment, and my friend rang me, and said he would have done something stupid, if he didn't talk to me.
*hugs* I am here if you need to talk.
thanks. we both have similar problems me and my friend, but he doesn't self-harm
That's good that you guys can relate to each other.
yeah, i always make sure i cut safely and cleanly :) it's better to be smart about it than dead.
Yeah. Just try not to cut first okay?
okay, i'll try. i'm becoming dependant on it again though..
Oh ok. Please talk to me when you are thinking about it and I will try to help you.
please have faith in us Carly :)we will be there for you we promise
Okay, I believe you. There is a guy that deals with professionally, I can't remember what his job title is but he helps people that self-harm. I need to get his contact details, but i've spoken to him, and he was nice to talk to. They should educate people about this at schools, or in the work place so they have a way to deal with it, in a nice way. Thanks guys, I will make sure I talk to you. No one I know in real life is a cutter.
