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Kaitlyn wrote: "Hi sarah! I absolutely love your books! They helped me though so much when I was in high school! I was wondering, when you're done writing a book how long do you wait to start writing again? And wh..."
Always when I finish a book I think I will never write another one. I'm usually so tired and burned out I can't do anything but sleep and watch Bravo. But eventually, an idea usually bubbles up. I'll keep filing things away, or writing them down, but eventually it will just get too interesting to ignore any longer and I'll have to start. I put it off as long as I can, though, because I KNOW once I begin I'll push myself to write every single day.
Always when I finish a book I think I will never write another one. I'm usually so tired and burned out I can't do anything but sleep and watch Bravo. But eventually, an idea usually bubbles up. I'll keep filing things away, or writing them down, but eventually it will just get too interesting to ignore any longer and I'll have to start. I put it off as long as I can, though, because I KNOW once I begin I'll push myself to write every single day.
Lauren wrote: "Do you write based on personal experience from when you were a teenager, or do you get inspiration from other places?
If its from personal experience, how do you keep the experiences feeling so cu..."
I do worry that my books won't feel as "real" now that I am so far out of high school myself. That said, I do try to stick to the things that don't change as much rather than keeping up with everything that does. The music, the slang, the world may be totally different, but some issues---like dealing with your parents, friends, love, etc---stay the same. They're timeless, whether we like it or not. So I stay close to them.
If its from personal experience, how do you keep the experiences feeling so cu..."
I do worry that my books won't feel as "real" now that I am so far out of high school myself. That said, I do try to stick to the things that don't change as much rather than keeping up with everything that does. The music, the slang, the world may be totally different, but some issues---like dealing with your parents, friends, love, etc---stay the same. They're timeless, whether we like it or not. So I stay close to them.
Sarah wrote: "I'm curious as to how you first decided to link all of your books together. Those links are sometimes so small a reader will almost miss them, you put them in so seamlessly. Is it rather simple to ..."
I try to make the connections as organic as possible. My hope is that if you haven't read any of the other books, the mentions of characters/places won't be distracting, but if you HAVE, it's like a little wink. I don't plan them out too much. They just sort of appear, or if I'm thinking of a specific place or person I wonder if I can work something in. If it seems right, I do it. It's better not to overthink! (Although I ALWAYS overthink. It's my number one issue as a writer, and, well, a person.)
I try to make the connections as organic as possible. My hope is that if you haven't read any of the other books, the mentions of characters/places won't be distracting, but if you HAVE, it's like a little wink. I don't plan them out too much. They just sort of appear, or if I'm thinking of a specific place or person I wonder if I can work something in. If it seems right, I do it. It's better not to overthink! (Although I ALWAYS overthink. It's my number one issue as a writer, and, well, a person.)
Kelsie wrote: "Sarah,
First, omg, I love you, if I get to see you next month I might fangirl and cry.
Now questions:
Have you ever tried writing one book, but it ended up becoming another?
What book was the har..."
I think JUST LISTEN was one of the hardest writing experiences I've had so far. Usually by the time I get to the very end of a book, I feel pretty good about it, but with that one I just didn't. I remember taking the manuscript to a coffee shop, reading it straight through, and then having a full-on panic attack. I was like, "How can I have worked so hard and this still isn't good enough?" I was losing it. I called my mom, who put my dad on the phone. He's good in a crisis. He said, "You're too close to it. Send it to your agent, get another opinion." So I did, and she loved it. He was right. There comes as time when I just have to get my sticky little fingers out of everything and let it go. I was glad I listened. So to speak.
First, omg, I love you, if I get to see you next month I might fangirl and cry.
Now questions:
Have you ever tried writing one book, but it ended up becoming another?
What book was the har..."
I think JUST LISTEN was one of the hardest writing experiences I've had so far. Usually by the time I get to the very end of a book, I feel pretty good about it, but with that one I just didn't. I remember taking the manuscript to a coffee shop, reading it straight through, and then having a full-on panic attack. I was like, "How can I have worked so hard and this still isn't good enough?" I was losing it. I called my mom, who put my dad on the phone. He's good in a crisis. He said, "You're too close to it. Send it to your agent, get another opinion." So I did, and she loved it. He was right. There comes as time when I just have to get my sticky little fingers out of everything and let it go. I was glad I listened. So to speak.
Barbara wrote: "Sarah, welcome to the group. My name is Barbara, I go to the University of Florida, and I am an English and psych major. I've always seriously considered writing as a career, but currently I am com..."
I never actually set out to be a YA writer. I just wrote a book with a teenage narrator, and my agent said it was YA. I was hesitant at first, because I was afraid I'd never be able to do anything else, but she told me to just trust her. I'm so glad I did. I think as a writer part of the hardest work is recognizing your strengths, and the teen voice just works for me. I'm so lucky to be here.
I never actually set out to be a YA writer. I just wrote a book with a teenage narrator, and my agent said it was YA. I was hesitant at first, because I was afraid I'd never be able to do anything else, but she told me to just trust her. I'm so glad I did. I think as a writer part of the hardest work is recognizing your strengths, and the teen voice just works for me. I'm so lucky to be here.
Abby wrote: "Hey there Sarah!
My name is Abby and as everyone else in this group has already stated, I'm a big fan of yours and of your writing. If I had to pick a favorite book of yours, I think it would hav..."
When I have a book in progress, I try to write every single day, usually for about two hours. But at the end of a book, when I can feel myself getting close to finishing, I'll write for longer, often pushing myself to get to that last, final sentence. By this point my husband understands that at a certain point I'll just really weird and quiet and be over in my office and forget to come to dinner. He can basically set his watch by it. But on a normal day, I do my work, then shift back into household mode as I walk across the breezeway from my office above the garage. Two worlds, very unlike, but adjacent.
My name is Abby and as everyone else in this group has already stated, I'm a big fan of yours and of your writing. If I had to pick a favorite book of yours, I think it would hav..."
When I have a book in progress, I try to write every single day, usually for about two hours. But at the end of a book, when I can feel myself getting close to finishing, I'll write for longer, often pushing myself to get to that last, final sentence. By this point my husband understands that at a certain point I'll just really weird and quiet and be over in my office and forget to come to dinner. He can basically set his watch by it. But on a normal day, I do my work, then shift back into household mode as I walk across the breezeway from my office above the garage. Two worlds, very unlike, but adjacent.

1. What tips would you give for the rewrite stage?
2. Since I am only fifteen, when do you think I should start really getting serious about finding a publisher and trying to get my stuff out there?
3. Do you suggest going to college for writing? And for how many years should I plan on?
Also, I've noticed that once I have the general idea of my story and my characters in mind, my characters start deciding everything for themselves. I feel like I'm discovering the elements of the story, rather than making them up. Is this what's supposed to happen? Do you have anything to say about that?
Jessica wrote: "Hi Sarah :) What do you think about the editing process? Most authors complain about it, but never elaborate. I just wanted to know your view on it."
I really need my editor. Do I love revising? No. I don't know anyone who does. But I don't always love writing, either. That's what makes both aspects, writing and revising, work. And you get to a point, as the author, where you seriously lose all perspective. I NEED someone else to come in and take a second look and help me shape what I have. I've worked with the same editor, the fabulous Regina Hayes at Viking, since THIS LULLABY, seven books now. We have a great rhythm and just get each other. But we work hard. We both want the book to be as good as possible, always.
I really need my editor. Do I love revising? No. I don't know anyone who does. But I don't always love writing, either. That's what makes both aspects, writing and revising, work. And you get to a point, as the author, where you seriously lose all perspective. I NEED someone else to come in and take a second look and help me shape what I have. I've worked with the same editor, the fabulous Regina Hayes at Viking, since THIS LULLABY, seven books now. We have a great rhythm and just get each other. But we work hard. We both want the book to be as good as possible, always.
Lorena wrote: "Hi Sarah!! Today is my birthday!! Can I have a signed copy of The Moon and More? Just kidding, although it is my birthday ;>) My name is Lauren and my friends and I have been reading your books ..."
Happy Birthday, Lorena! Hope it's a great one! :)
Happy Birthday, Lorena! Hope it's a great one! :)
Alexa wrote: "Hi Sarah! I have loved your books for many, many years. I always get so excited when I learn you have a new book coming out! I really enjoyed the moon and more.
One of the things I love the most ab..."
That's so funny, because I did actually think about having Norman show up in the book. There's a line, I think, where Ivy asks Theo if he'd been in touch with "that guy from here who'd been at Parsons," and in my mind, that was Norman. I just never took it further. Maybe I should have!
One of the things I love the most ab..."
That's so funny, because I did actually think about having Norman show up in the book. There's a line, I think, where Ivy asks Theo if he'd been in touch with "that guy from here who'd been at Parsons," and in my mind, that was Norman. I just never took it further. Maybe I should have!
Lindsay wrote: "Hey Sarah,
I was just wondering which love interest from your books is most like your husband? And why?
Thanks, love you, love your books,
Lindsay"
I don't think any of them are JUST like my husband, but they all have little bits and pieces. It's mostly that quirky humor, because that was always so attractive to me in ANY guy. I will say that the whole Jedi Mind Trick that Macon talks to Halley about in SOMEONE LIKE YOU is based totally on my husband and a conversation we once had. He is convinced he has Jedi powers. I am not so sure, but...
I was just wondering which love interest from your books is most like your husband? And why?
Thanks, love you, love your books,
Lindsay"
I don't think any of them are JUST like my husband, but they all have little bits and pieces. It's mostly that quirky humor, because that was always so attractive to me in ANY guy. I will say that the whole Jedi Mind Trick that Macon talks to Halley about in SOMEONE LIKE YOU is based totally on my husband and a conversation we once had. He is convinced he has Jedi powers. I am not so sure, but...
Nicole wrote: "When you are writing, do you have a certain message or theme in mind that you want to achieve or do you just kind of stumble upon it?"
I usually have a certain sense when I begin of an over-arching theme, but some of the best stuff comes without me really planning it. One of my professors at UNC, the great Doris Betts, always told us that if you're too obvious with symbolism it's like hitting the reader with a frying pan. She said we should trust our subconscious will put in what we need, and I find that to be true. It's always hard to have faith, though!
I usually have a certain sense when I begin of an over-arching theme, but some of the best stuff comes without me really planning it. One of my professors at UNC, the great Doris Betts, always told us that if you're too obvious with symbolism it's like hitting the reader with a frying pan. She said we should trust our subconscious will put in what we need, and I find that to be true. It's always hard to have faith, though!

Destiny (Elizabeth Grace) wrote: "Hello Sarah! I'm almost sixteen years old and I'm writing my second book, which I call Like The Stars. I would like some advice, please:
1. What tips would you give for the rewrite stage?
2. Since..."
When I start the rewrite/editing process, the first thing I do is go back to the beginning of the book and read it straight though. It's just the best way to get a sense of what I'm working with. I can take things out I thought I might need but don't, get a sense for what's working and what is dragging, and just experience it as a whole. Then I go back and do it again. And again. Until I feel like it's as good as I can get it, and then it goes off to my agent for HER opinion.
1. What tips would you give for the rewrite stage?
2. Since..."
When I start the rewrite/editing process, the first thing I do is go back to the beginning of the book and read it straight though. It's just the best way to get a sense of what I'm working with. I can take things out I thought I might need but don't, get a sense for what's working and what is dragging, and just experience it as a whole. Then I go back and do it again. And again. Until I feel like it's as good as I can get it, and then it goes off to my agent for HER opinion.
You guys, I can't believe it's already almost five pm here! My babysitter is about to leave, which means the end of the workday (or writing workday: parenting is a job that HAS no time clock, I've found). Thank you all SO SO much for all the questions. If I didn't get to yours specifically, I so hope I answered it somewhere! Thanks again for all the kind words. Have a GREAT summer!












My name is Jenny ^_^ HUGE HUGE HUUUUUGGGEEE FAN!!!!
Okay my question is whats your inspiration for your books? and What's your favorite memory when you were writing your books?




Your books are AMAZING!! I read The Truth About Forever in...probably late middle school, or maybe ninth grade. It made me track down every other book you had written before it (and all those since) and inhale them. The Truth About Forever has remained my favorite of yours - as well as my favorite book of all time! - but I love each and every one of you books! I love how you have topics that are of a more...taboo, for lack of a better word (hey, it's almost bed time! My brain is beginning to shut down!), such as rape and teen pregnancy. Even when your heroines are very different from me, I cannot help but find ways to relate to them and love them dearly! Thank you for writing, and I cannot wait for the next book (I already read The Moon And More, so I have a long wait unfortunately)!
heyy this is my story not finished http://www.goodreads.com/story/show/3... but please read ms.dessen <3



i really love to write, and for a while i tried to do what you do, but it didn't really work out (although i have not gotten a second opinion on that) and i kind of gave up on writing my own book. i will probably try again when school starts back up. Anyways, i can't wait to start another book by you (i'm reading This Lullabye now) .
P.S if you have any writing pointers, i would really appriciate hearing them.
thanks

You're an amazing author, and I just wanted know that I love your books, and you're amazing amazing author! My favorite book was Just Listen - Sarah Dessen. I really fell in love with your books! I'm 12 years old! Even though at a young age, you really put a big impact onto my life. Your books are fabulous, and I would if you answer these questions!
1. In what position, or how do you write a book? What if your most comfortable things to do and have while writing a book?
2. Are these book based on your childhood?
3. Do you plan before you write?
4. Where did all your ideas come from?
Thank you!





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