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Jul 03, 2013 07:34PM
Same here, I have maybe 2 or 3 good friends offline and only one friend who I can talk about books with. But other than her I have to place to discuss reading and writing, and that seems to be ALL I ever do so it's always good to have Goodreads to talk with other people with the same interests.
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How's everybody doing today? Hope your summer so far has been fun ;)
Not me, I'm doing great actually :) haven't felt this good in months. I think its cause I'm out and about with friends, exercising and am around lots of people. The depressed feelings always come when I'm alone and not doing anything. But I feel really Good now :)
Hey that's awesome! I'm so happy for you!!! And if you're ever bored or lonely I'm always on here :) I hope you keep having a great summer ;-)
Dauntless wrote: "Hey that's awesome! I'm so happy for you!!! And if you're ever bored or lonely I'm always on here :) I hope you keep having a great summer ;-)"
Thanks! You, too :)
Thanks! You, too :)
Mercy♥ ~I'm done thinking about you~ wrote: "Is it bad that I hate myself?"
I also hate myself.
I also hate myself.
I feel ugly most of the time and I hate my personality and I'm so socially awkward and I just... ugh
Well if there's one thing that I've learned is that everyone is beautiful in different ways. And your personality is something that you can't change. It's your total essence. It's what makes you, you. I think it's hard for all of us the accept our selves in today's world. We're taught from tv, books, and magazines that the only way to be beautiful is be a size zero and be 5'10. But I find beauty in people by their actions and heart not looks. I like your personality Annabel because you're able to express yourself and tell people what bothers you. It takes a strong person to do that. I respect you greatly for all that you do for the group and being expressive in personal matters. That's what beauty is. The way to achieve true happiness is by loving yourself first. Once you recognize what an amazing person you are, you can start to see true beauty in everything else. How about you tell me something you like about yourself?
Hmm. Well I like my eyes, i like the color of them, I like that i'm never rude to anyone (or try not to be), I sometimes like my hair because its curly and can be styled easily....
See! Those are beautiful qualities. And those are things that are unique to you. So when you ever feel that way again remember your fav qualities.
Things are really bothering me, actually...it's getting harder and harder to fast since it's Ramadan. But not the "eating" thing, but personal matters. I can't even tell my parents, and my friends don't help hat much. So all the stress is literally making me sick to my stomach.
I can understand that. I get physically sick when I'm nervous, anxious, or upset. Especially holidays. But that's the beauty of this topic. You can rant and get stuff off your chest without judgement. We're all here to listen :)
Thanks:) I'm even more terrified that I'll sound like another Bella Swan. Stuff like that really gets to me, even if this is just the internet...
I think it's therapeutic to get stuff out no matter if you think it sounds whiny. And plus Bella was dealing with a vampire not real life problems lol. Trust me, there's stuff out there scarier than vampires.
I'm the kind of person who locks things inside of me until I'm pretty much about to explode. Writing in a diary sometimes helps me or just ranting on here since I don't really have a real- life person I can just go up to and talk to. Even though Ive been feeling really good lately (if not a little self conscious and self-hateful) there are times when I feel like I'm completely alone in the world and no one wants to hear me complain, I'm just a waste of everyones time and effort.
I get super judge mental of myself with school. I don't know why but I get it in my head that if I get anything less than an A I've failed myself somehow. But then I have to remind myself that nothing and nobody is perfect. We're designed to make mistakes in life so we can learn from them. Some lessons are more painful than others but in the end they do teach us. And I think it's hard to go to someone and confess your most inner demons. When you type in a diary, like you said Annabel, it's like you're talking to a person who is free of judgement. If you went to a parent or a friend you would be scared if they'd tell someone else or say you're a bad person. When I feel alone I remind myself that I have family and other people on here that feel the same. I love that I can express myself and hopefully help someone who else going through the same thing on here.
that's what I do for school! I go to a school where there is a lot of pressure from teachers, peers, and parents to get perfect grades, and I always feel like if I get worse than an A, I won't be able to get into a good high school or college.
I used to come on here a lot more than I do now, Mostly I come on here when I'm feeling down so I can talk to people who can make me feel better or relate their feelings to me. Its nice to know that there are people on here that won't judge me or think Im a bad person if I rant. :)
I used to come on here a lot more than I do now, Mostly I come on here when I'm feeling down so I can talk to people who can make me feel better or relate their feelings to me. Its nice to know that there are people on here that won't judge me or think Im a bad person if I rant. :)
Hey that's what everyone on here is doing so rant away! Do you mind me asking what grade you're in Annabel?
Dauntless wrote: "Why do you hate yourself Mercy?"I feel so useless and talentless and annoying...
Hi, I've been following this disscussion, but I never knew what to say. So far, I can see that most of you have suffered some horribles things, and I feel really sorry for you,mostly about the cutting. I never heard about the cutting before, and I feel horible that there are actually quite many girls that suffer it.Maybe, I never suffered cutting, or bulimic, or anorexia. But, look, I'm just like you, a normal teenage girl. Sometimes I feel really insecure and I used to have a really low self-esteem. And I've been trying to get out from all those things. So here's my advice. Don't hurt yourself! It's never been a good solution, face it, find a friend that can help you or maybe just to hear your stories. And also never EVER let anyone make you feel horrible,ugly,or worse, a freak. Remember that everyone is unique and beautiful in their own way, including you! There are many people who will accept you. So, if someone called you a freak because you have different kind of sense of music,hobby,clothes or maybe someone who push you to do something that you don't want to( including your own parents), here's what you should say : "SCREW YOU!!" Because no one, not even one could ever says such a thing to you
Mercy I am so sorry that's how you see yourself. All of the girls on here are so strong and amazing for all that you've been through and yet keep going. You are so not useless. I have never been annoyed by you and if anybody has ever said that then they suck and bring down people to make themselves feel better. And you are very talented. Everyone has a talent whether they know it or not. I bet there's something that you do that you're very good at but have no idea about . You have a whole life time to figure things out. Just take life day by day and find the beauty that God gave you. We are special and it's never a bad thing to stand out ;)
Dauntless wrote: "Mercy I am so sorry that's how you see yourself. All of the girls on here are so strong and amazing for all that you've been through and yet keep going. You are so not useless. I have never been an..."Thanks Dauntless :) I mean, I do have talents- Musical Theatre is my passion- but I guess growing up in a huge family and being surrounded by people who are so talented in so many ways.. it just makes you feel stupid sometimes..
But see that's the thing. Though everyone has a talent it doesn't make yours mean any less. Saying one talent is more special than the other doesn't exist. I always envied my sister because she was great with people and everybody loved her. I always felt by me being funny people saw it as annoying when my sister had a calm way about her. But then I saw that sometimes people need to laugh and sometimes people need to be calmed. One isn't better than the other because they are both needed equally. And musical theater is a great talent. One day you could make thousands of people happy with your talent. Just remember that and you'll be fine :)
Dauntless wrote: "Hey that's what everyone on here is doing so rant away! Do you mind me asking what grade you're in Annabel?"
Hey, sorry I'm replying so late, I was at camp haha. I'm in 8th grade :)
Hey, sorry I'm replying so late, I was at camp haha. I'm in 8th grade :)
There is this song that I hear quite frequently, and one of the lines is "I don't wanna gain the whole world and loose my soul," and what I take that to mean is you don't wanna try to please everybody, and loose yourself in the process. Just keep that in mind when you think down on yourself. Stay strong!
Toby Mac :) very inspirational! And true. That was really good advice!
Livi wrote: "Toby Mac :) very inspirational! And true. That was really good advice!"Thank you! I was only translating what I thought it ment.(=
Zoe wrote: "There is this song that I hear quite frequently, and one of the lines is "I don't wanna gain the whole world and loose my soul," and what I take that to mean is you don't wanna try to please everyb..."
I love TobyMac :') So how's everyone been in the over the last few days?
I love TobyMac :') So how's everyone been in the over the last few days?
IS EVERYONE HAPPY????I HAVE EXCITEMENT RUNNING THROUGH MY VEINS!!!
1.Vampire Academy: Blood Sisters WRAPPED TWO DAYS AGO!!!! WHOOP WHOOP!
2.CITY OF BONES MOVIE (comes out in 31 days!)
3.CATCHING FIRE TRAILER!!!!
OMG EVERYONE GO BESERK!!!
I'm pretty excited about City of Bones. Hope I can go see it when it comes out.
MEEEE TOOOOOO!!!! I think I need help because I fangirl waaaaaaaaaaay too much!
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.... *continues laughing histerically*
and I can't type! :( :S :/ XD
oh well
he he
Zoe wrote: "There is this song that I hear quite frequently, and one of the lines is "I don't wanna gain the whole world and loose my soul," and what I take that to mean is you don't wanna try to please everyb..."TobyMac! Ahhh<3
Yeah, hi. Well this might seem kind of dumb, but I need to tell someone and yeah. Okay so my guy beat friend and I are always fighting, don't ask me why because I simply don't know. Yeah so sometimes he stops like talking to me for days and sometimes weeks. When he does talk to me again he talks like nothing ever happened. He gets jealous if I spend time with other dudes and I don't get it, I mean I'm his best friend and he isn't like that with one of my best friend who's also his friend. Get it? Well I don't get why he does that. Anyways people have said that we'll end up together and if I'm not lying when I say sometimes we do have our relationshipy, coupely moments, but yeah. I think that's all. Thanks! ☺️
Pamela wrote: "Yeah, hi. Well this might seem kind of dumb, but I need to tell someone and yeah. Okay so my guy beat friend and I are always fighting, don't ask me why because I simply don't know. Yeah so sometim..."He seems very protective over you. He may like you or he may see you as a sister, it deeds on the guy. If he's not the flirty kind he may like you but if he's flirty with other girls too it might not be something big.
Hey you're not alone, that what we're here for. I won't make fun of the whole boy problem situation (been there done that really don't want to go back) Is there a reason for you're depression, a story, a cause? Sometimes just putting it all out there, saying it to someone can make you feel a little better
