Just the Way YOU are! discussion
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Are you looking for a relationship advice?
Dominique wrote: "Yaaaaayy!!!! That's awesome!!!!! Yikes Keanna. My first crush I crushed on for like six years. But I don't know very many guys to like, the guys in my school are.... Hmm. But I'm going to a new sc..."like i said..i don't really know much about relationships and guys cause i have never had a bf or gone on a date..though i have been asked out before... :/
I've never been asked out or gone on a date or even been liked by anybody, I don't think ;))
Dominique wrote: "Hey girl"hey 'dere! :P
i have been liked by a few guys...i know of 2, maybe 3, that like me right now... :/ not that i like them....but i think Austin may possibly like me back just a little bit *bites lip* but i dont wanna get my hopes up :1
Don't get them up but don't get them down either, that's the only way to survive ;)
Nvm.
My friends say the only reason- and guys tell me this too- that no one ever feels like that about me is because like I'm so friendly and I'm like an awesome friend that I'm just always a friend and they don't think of me that way. Lol I guess the ultimate friendzone... But I'm glad that it's not just everyone hates me, they all love me so much that they can't love me romantically lol <3
My friends say the only reason- and guys tell me this too- that no one ever feels like that about me is because like I'm so friendly and I'm like an awesome friend that I'm just always a friend and they don't think of me that way. Lol I guess the ultimate friendzone... But I'm glad that it's not just everyone hates me, they all love me so much that they can't love me romantically lol <3
of course!!!!!!!!!!! You are sooooo amazing, Dom, and I'm not just saying that! You'd have to be dumb not to wanna be friends with you :1i mean...i like Austin and i could see us together, but the idea is so foreign to me...
I mean like a dating what's the foreign idea RO you
yes dating is foreign to me..but i meat like me being with him...I kinda feel like it won't happen.. :1
Oh hey don't say that!!! And lol sorry idk why I am not making much sense right now
haha its okay....but again..i kinda feel like trying to get over him again...it's weird..totally different opinion than how i was last night, i was freaking out :P
I have never dated a guy over three days, until recently. I really don't wanna loose the guy I'm dating now, but at the same time I'm scared to open up. I have a messed up past and I'm scared of it. How do I say enough but not too much?
Go for the guy who actually likes you. If your bf isn't good, then dump him.
But if its hurting you to be with him...
If she really is your bffl, she will understand. As for the other people, don't let them judge your life by how you are perceived. I know a girl who goes out with a different guy every month. Each new bf people say they "look good together". Even so, isn't it on the inside what matters? Who cares if you look good together in a photo or on paper? As long as you are happy. You are the one living with your decision.
Yes, I understand your need to protect him. Overall, it is your decision, but you should be worrying about yourself. You need to be happy before you can truly be there to help others.
Aw, no problem. :) If only I could give myself relationship advice. :/
Huh, I guess but its really complicated and to know one thing you have to know everything.
Its okay! My whole life is confusing. I'm surprised I know how to deal it sometimes.
I have fallen for my friend. I never thought I'd fall for anyone, but here I am.
EJ!!!! HI!!!!! GASP you've fallen for your friend?!
HEY!!!!!! I'VE MISSED YOU SOOOOOOOO MUUUUUCCHHHHHHH!!!!!!! Sorry I haven't been on!!!! Yep. I think I told you.....
Haha, you say it like it's the worst thing in the world!
HIIIIIIIII I'VE MISSED YOU TOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <333333333 WAIT WHAT'S HIS NAME I MIGHT REMEMBER
oh yeah this is how we met anyway hahah
oh yeah this is how we met anyway hahah
Paigetwo *Caitlyn* wrote: "Haha, you say it like it's the worst thing in the world!"It may be. I don't know.
E.j. wrote: "Paigetwo *Caitlyn* wrote: "Haha, you say it like it's the worst thing in the world!"It may be. I don't know."
I see... well maybe. Maybe not. You can never know really.
Dominique wrote: "HIIIIIIIII I'VE MISSED YOU TOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <333333333 WAIT WHAT'S HIS NAME I MIGHT REMEMBERoh yeah this is how we met anyway hahah"
Oh yea! I forgot about that! Well, he's gotten even more amazing. Cruel world!!!!!! ;)
Cruel world.... I know right?!
Paigetwo *Caitlyn* wrote: "Cruel world.... I know right?!"You feel my pain. I'm so.....giggly. It's creeping me out. O.O
E.j. wrote: "Paigetwo *Caitlyn* wrote: "Cruel world.... I know right?!"You feel my pain. I'm so.....giggly. It's creeping me out. O.O"
Haha! Sorta yea..
E.j. wrote: "Dominique wrote: "HIIIIIIIII I'VE MISSED YOU TOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <333333333 WAIT WHAT'S HIS NAME I MIGHT REMEMBERoh yeah this is how we met anyway hahah"
Oh yea! I forgot about that! Well, he's ..."
Oh, and his name's D.
Ok. I am seriously confused with my emotions right now. Haha that sounds weird but I didnt know how to word it. I'm just so confused. Its this guy, lets call him J. I have liked him on and off for like 2-3 years (I didnt really keep track). This year and part of last year, I came to realise what a jerk and an idiot he is. He talks about the weirdest things and he is rude and loud and not exactly a good person when he is with his friends. I have been saying the last month or so that I hate his guts and that he has been teasing me. But, I think I might have exaggerated it. And he is quieter around me and isnt outright rude to me. And hes really annoying, but my friend says he is less annoying around me. We have always jokingly teased eachother and that was when I liked him. And since he would so the same back I had the slightest feeling had liked me too, just a little.but now I dont really know what to think. I dont really know if I still have some feelings for him or if I just think he is funny or what. I coulsnt really see us together. And I dont think he would accept me if he got to know me better. He is in the popular group ans im not. I like to think of myself as in the middle, universal. But I dont think he would acctually like me once he got to know me (even though ive known him for 10 years in school).
My friend (same friend^^) thinks I like him cause I apparently "flirt" with him in class and its really obvious. But I "flirt" with other guys. Im just joking around. J's like #1 line is "I'll see you after class" and I used it against him. Haha. So this is the situation/convo from the other day:
So we r in line to hand our packets in and J was in front of me stapling his. People kept asking the teacher the same question over and over and so I said under my breath, "Come on."
J heard and turned around and is like "What? Not going fast enough for ya?!"
I said, "No not you." and handed in my packet.
Then with a slight smirk I plopped into my seat and said, "Acctually, yes!"
He comes tru the isle to his seat (right behind mine) and says "Oh yeah?"
I turned around and said, "Yeah! I'll have to see you after class." By this time 2 of my friends came to my desk to talk to me before the bell rang.
He says "Oh so you're stealing my line now, huh?"
I said, "Yep and turned back around to my friends. One, lets call her S, had a surprised look on her face. I rolled my eyes and said "What?"
She mouthed, "Do you like him (J)?"
I shook my head and mouthed a surprised "No!"
My friend a few seats back, must have saw everything and nodded and I was like "No!"
S said, "Well it seems kinda obvious since you're flirting with him"
"I wasnt flirting!" I said
She nodded as the bell rang
.....sooo yeah....ive always "flirted" but I can never tell what is legit flirting or just joking...
It's joking. He's your friend, right? I have TONS of guy friends that I "flirt" with. Last week my best friend thought I was dating a guy because I we both acted like it. It is perfectly normal to flirt with a guy with no intentions of dating them. You might still have feelings for him, but I doubt it. When you did like him did you joke like this? If yes then really think about your feelings. If no then it's unlikely you still like him. If anything is confusing just ask! :)
Yeah I joked like this with him when I liked him too...Haha..well idk if I have feelings for him still or hate his guts...ao not really friends... :1
Mm, could it just be your personality? Liking someone is enjoying the good and the bad. If you see/ saw him as a jerk then you could possibly just be playing nice.
Yeah it couls be my personaility... I have changed a lot since school started. Its like a switch. Im so much less shy and am more carefree, loud, and outgoing...acctually often a little too loud :) haha. But its weird, im still trying to grasp it all.... but I dunno what to think cause I dunno if I care all that hes a jerk (as weird and bad as that sounds) but..ugh I dunno if I have feelings for him still...
Well, only you could know. :) Just see how you react around him. I wish you luck finding b out
I have a question people say my bf personality has changed since we have been together. I don't notice anything but I'm confused.
It is often hard to see what is right in front of us. Ask the people who said this to explain exactly HOW he has changed. Then see if you agree and try to be as non judgmental and non biased as you can be. Then talk to him and see what is going through his brain.
Communication is the big key to any and all realtionships!
@ Dom, how can you not be crushing on any guy right now? 5sos don't count XD
Yeah well...me and X talk a lot...in fact I've barely told any o..."
yeah? i wouldnt really know..he is the only person i have liked this much :) i mean, i have had other crushes on guys but not for very long and now im like "Why did i ever have a crush on him? He's a jerk."
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