Ask Jessy

[Sierra]

Jessy, do get along well with your mom? I just feel like my mom and I are always arguing and I don't want our relationship to be like that. :(

[Sierra]

Here is fine :) I was just wondering if you have any advice...or suggestions or something that I could do to try to get along better...idk.

[Sierra]

1 - Idk...we argue about lots of stuff. But mostly about the way I do certain things or how I always shut myself up in my bedroom.

2 - Well, it usually starts when she makes a comment about something and then I just feel like she's attacking me and so I give her attitude and then she gets mad so I give her more attitude...and I know I shouldn't but it's hard not to when she makes me mad. :/

[Sierra]

Okay, I'll try that. Thank you Jessy :)

[Sierra]

*Hugs back*
Don't worry, I'm sure I'll be back with another problem sometime XD

[Kat]

I have a book problem...I just bought 14 books that I now need to work off...because now I am in debt to my dad. What am I going to do :/

[Kat]

well...I just have to work it off, I wouldn't call it 'borrowing'...its only 12 hrs of work I need to do

[Niámh]

My friend got hacked or something like that on GR and she she deleted her account and my other friend deleted hers too she told me to delete mine but I really like GR and don't want to delete it what should I do?

[Niámh]

Ok thanks ill tell her:)

[[deleted user]]

I will give you advice the best I can.

[Sierra]

I can try too :)

[Raven]

Jessy

How are you such a good listener and so patient? Everyone brings their problems to you and you always seem to know what to do. I love how you're so religious and care so much about others. How do you do it?

[[deleted user]]

Jessy,

I have a problem. I'm 42 years old and my skin is oily. I've spent a small fortune in products that were supposed to get rid of the oil, but they didn't work.

My question is, would you or any other girl find oily skin gross on a man. Thanks in advance.

[[deleted user]]

I wash my face twice a day, so I do keep it healthy.

Proactive is for acne. I don't have acne.

So, is oily skin a turn off?

[Holly]

Aaron wrote: "I wash my face twice a day, so I do keep it healthy.

Proactive is for acne. I don't have acne.

So, is oily skin a turn off?"

Aaron, I know this is the "Ask Jessy" thread, but, Jessy is young and blissfully unaware of the problems of aging skin. Your skin may actually be dry and is reacting by over-producing oil. Try using a moisturizer for dry skin and see if this helps.

[[deleted user]]

@Holly

I do use a moisturizer, Holly. No benefits. I've always had oily skin, but didn't expect to have it in my 40's. Or is it because my hormones are acting up again?
My skin does have dry patches, true, Holly.

It just affects my self esteem is all.

[[deleted user]]

Jessy wrote: "It also helps oily skin too

Ummm well it kind of is. I don't mean to hurt your feelings at all though"
No, I appreciate your honesty, Jess.

[Holly]

Aaron wrote: "@Holly

I do use a moisturizer, Holly. No benefits. I've always had oily skin, but didn't expect to have it in my 40's. Or is it because my hormones are acting up again?
My skin does have dry patch..."

Find a moisturizer containing salycylic acid, this should help with the oil problem.

[[deleted user]]

No worries, Jess. You didn't offend me at all. I admire your honesty.

@Holly

I'm allergic to salycylic acid, but thanks any way, my friend.

I've tried blotting papers, too. They don't work. Ah well, at least I won't get wrinkles, eh? LOL

[[deleted user]]

You're welcome.:)