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Feb 23, 2014 03:52PM
WHY DOES MY FAMILY WHO KNOWS I AM BI ASK IF THERE IS A BOY INSTEAD OF JUST SAYING IS THERE SOMEONE??? BECAUSE ITS REALLY AWKWARD AND I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE "OH ITS A GIRL, ACTUALLY"
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♥★Julia wrote: "ALiStAiR (aLiBi) wrote: "♥★Julia wrote: "why are some people still homophobic, transphobic, biphobic, anti-lgbt+, anti marriage equality bigots???"People will always have different opinions on th..."
I was trying to say equality and fairness will shine brighter and prevail, the negativity. o.O
ALiStAiR (aLiBi) wrote: "♥★Julia wrote: "ALiStAiR (aLiBi) wrote: "♥★Julia wrote: "why are some people still homophobic, transphobic, biphobic, anti-lgbt+, anti marriage equality bigots???"People will always have differen..."
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You made sense aLiBi....If I may speak for Julia...she has been on the receiving end of many false platitudes and I guess it might, sometimes, be easy to mistake empathy for generalisation. I could be wrong...but I reckon that the (: means she knows you are one of the good guyolls !
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NuTs....MaY CoNtAiN ChAoS ! wrote: "You made sense aLiBi....If I may speak for Julia...she has been on the receiving end of many false platitudes and I guess it might, sometimes, be easy to mistake empathy for generalisation. I could..."platitude?
Platitudes....ie: People pretending to understand your pain because it seems the right or fshionable thing to do...but really just smiling and nodding because they don't actually give a fig or understand anything about them.
NOT under ANY circumstances to be mistaken for a Platypus !
Don't get pLaTiNoid. It's very pLaTiNiZinG. That's pLaty much it.
Why don't people smell their own feet?
Aaron-{{Everlast}}-Rebel Leader wrote: "Why don't people smell their own feet?"i do.......just to make sure its not me who stinks!
Why do some people ignore me so easily? Maybe I don't explain myself well?
Brenda, it's great that you're in college. The hardest things are always the most rewarding to do. So study hard and have fun! :)
WhY ? wHy ? WHY ? Delilah....la da la da la la la la laaaaa !
Why do i get upset really easily?
Haha
no
but why is it that i get mad at every 1 except one person ?
no
but why is it that i get mad at every 1 except one person ?
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This HOLE hormone thing as u call it is fucked up!
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hahaha
yet i am having a bad day and u mad me laugh
thank u XD
yet i am having a bad day and u mad me laugh
thank u XD
without it, life in a couple years would suck lol
Why..
Dont I feel like I can trust anyone?
Do I feel like I am the ugliest person alive?
Cant I accept that I am broken?
Do I can so much about what other people think?
Dont I have anyone to talk to about this?
I know that is not a lot but I normally NEVER put anything out there like that I am very to myself about those things so please dont judge me because that took a lot for me to type that....
Dont I feel like I can trust anyone?
Do I feel like I am the ugliest person alive?
Cant I accept that I am broken?
Do I can so much about what other people think?
Dont I have anyone to talk to about this?
I know that is not a lot but I normally NEVER put anything out there like that I am very to myself about those things so please dont judge me because that took a lot for me to type that....
Lexie, it's great that you are sharing your feelings. It helps to let things out sometimes. It's hard to trust people, and you have to be careful,just take it one step at a time, get to know alot about someone, then you will find that you may start to trust people more.
You're not the ugliest person alive.That's all in your head. Try to pick a few things you like about yourself and focus on that.
Broken how? Broken can always be fixed.
Everyone wants to be accepted and therefore care what others think of them, but don't put other peoples opinions ahead of your own. Your opinion of yourself matters the most. So try to think positively. Negative thoughts will get you nowhere.
Well I have a lot of stuff going on with me lately by grade have SUCKED at least for me I am on the verge of a C in 2 of my classes so my parents aren't happy about that and just a lot of stuff really.. I have pretty much gotten to a point that there really isn't something that I think is pretty about me. And I know that negative thoughts are bad but I just can seem to get them to go away sometimes.
Lexie, even with all the stuff that's going on in your life, just try to focus on one thing at a time.It's easier to find solutions that way.
At least a C is still passing. Just try harder in your studies, or seek help from a teacher if you need it.
I struggle with self image problems too. But there's nothing wrong with you. You're not disfigured, people don't point and stare at you. Just try to find something that makes you feel alittle pretty, makeup, get your hair done or whatever. Just find something that makes you feel good, for you, and not anyone else. And self- confidence looks good on anyone. You should work on getting that. :)
Yeah I am!! :) Thank you so much @ALiStAiR (aLiBi) that honestly helped a lot!1 :)
@CuB the CoUcH of ChAoS I beg to differ... I am
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Lexie wrote: "Well then what am I?"You're just a person with a few problems like everyone else, that doesn't mean you're broken, only human.
I geuss.... its just kind of hard sometimes and it feels like that
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Lexie, I know it is hard sometimes. I'm going threw some problems too.Just by talking about it proves you are not broken. Just keep trying different solutions and ask for help, or talk it out and things will get better.
Thank you all soo muxh it has honeslty made me feel 10 times better!! :) you all are so AWESOME and thank you for letting me whine and not judging me you all are great!! :)
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Hahah thanks I am going to hold you to that :)
Why is it impossible for me to ever be me?Why is "me" so difficult?
Why haven't I found a unicorn yet?
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But online and in life are so different, you guys don't see, hear, or find out anything about me that I don't want you too. In life everyone can see everything, call me the wrong things, talk to me the wrong ways. I can't be me in my life.
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Maybe. But not in the way I'm thinking.
