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[Johanna]

Antonella wrote: "Calathea wrote: "Thanks, Antonella! I knew we could count on you. :)
I was blind and didn't find the third post. *headdesk* "

You are welcome!

I'm somehow specialising in finding links ;-)"

From now on you shall be our official link lady. :-)

[Sabine]

Johanna wrote: "Antonella wrote: "Calathea wrote: "Thanks, Antonella! I knew we could count on you. :)
I was blind and didn't find the third post. *headdesk* "

You are welcome!

I'm somehow specialising in findin..."

Haha, I like that! Antonella, the Lady of the Links!

[Antonella]

Sabine wrote: "Haha, I like that! Antonella, the Lady of the Links! "

LOL! That's a nice title though.

[Josh]

It's not so much that I am tired of hearing authors complain about how tough publishing is these days. It's more that I think we all have to be realistic about what we want and what we can live with and still be sane and healthy.

I think people are very bad at those two things.

And I think it is hard for people to let go of a dream even when the dream has proved to be disastrous.

Dreams are powerful things.

[Jordan]

Josh wrote: "It's not so much that I am tired of hearing authors complain about how tough publishing is these days. It's more that I think we all have to be realistic about what we want and what we can live wit..."

It might not even be just that, but also everything else an author has to do to survive that doesn't come packaged with the dream. I'm thinking things like marketing, dealing with numbers and publicity. ugh. I'm into words and not much else myself. And of course most authors probably can't hire someone to do that stuff for them. I know I couldn't. That's what I'd be complaining about, anyway.

[Josh]

Jordan wrote: "Josh wrote: "It's not so much that I am tired of hearing authors complain about how tough publishing is these days. It's more that I think we all have to be realistic about what we want and what we..."

Oh yes! Absolutely. It's a realistic understanding of what the dream entails. Because for writing, it is most definitely about all the other stuff as well as the writing.

Nobody signs on to be a writer because they just love the idea of promotion and advertising so darned much. :-D

Or because they couldn't wait to emulate a hamster on a wheel.

[Sabine]

There is a very interesting new blog post on Josh's blog
Thinky thoughts about love ♥

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.de/

[Calathea]

Sabine wrote: "There is a very interesting new blog post on Josh's blog
Thinky thoughts about love ♥

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.de/"

So many things going on at the same time! Thanks for the link, Sabine!

[Johanna]

PLEASE GIVE ME MONEY!!! (Josh has a new blog post, that is.) :-)

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.fi/2015/09...

[Calathea]

Johanna wrote: "PLEASE GIVE ME MONEY!!! (Josh has a new blog post, that is.) :-)

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.fi/2015/09..."

Yes, give me all your money. :-D

[Sabine]

Great blog post! And I am very interested to hear more about a graphic novel :) !

[KC]

Sabine wrote: "Great blog post! And I am very interested to hear more about a graphic novel :) !"

Me too! That would be fantastic! :-)

[Mtsnow13]

KC wrote: "Sabine wrote: "Great blog post! And I am very interested to hear more about a graphic novel :) !"

Me too! That would be fantastic! :-)"

Great post! Had to share on Twitter :D I know I greatly enjoyed looking at the graphics in the Japanese editions, and to me, they are a good reason to invest lol. I appreciate the article as I've personally taken part in both Kickstarter and Indiegogo campaigns. This is the first I've heard of Patreon. Thank you!

[Johanna]

A brand new blog post from Josh. Take it or leave it. ;-)

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.fi/2015/09...

[Calathea]

Johanna wrote: "A brand new blog post from Josh. Take it or leave it. ;-)

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.fi/2015/09..."

Thanks for posting, dear. I didn't expect another one today. Suffice to say there shouldn't be a need to post this special one.

[Jordan]

I actually found out years ago and it never bothered me a bit. I don't see why so many people have to get their panties in a bunch over stuff like this.

Josh, you keep writing and I'll keep reading, whoever you are under that kilt. :-D

[Susinok]

Oh and the inspection went very well. A few very, VERY minor things (like a burned out light!).

The house is soundly constructed, in great shape, and no termites.

Now to wait for the appraisal. I expect to be able to close once I get back from GRNW.

[Goge]

How come all Josh's blog post don't show up on his FB or the fan page FB? Do admins select which to post there? I love his blogs (his, hers, whatever) and sometimes I don't have time to go to his blog to check for new posts. It's easier with FB on my phone so... This is not critics to admins, just a question. I just discovered posts from August LOL. Oh, well, more to read :-).

[Calathea]

We'll have to ask Josh that. I don't know if the automatic forward-function is in place. Or it might be one of the posts that were sneaked in after the fact. ;-)

[Goge]

Okay.

[Johanna]

Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. Check it out:

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.de/2015/09...

ETA: YOU rock, dear!!!

[Antonella]

Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. Check it out:

http://joshlanyon.blogspot.de/2015/09...

ETA: YOU rock, dear!!!"

Thank you, I wouldn't have noticed it.

[Karen]

Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And thanks for the additional note, Josh. Because this did mean something to me, being (as is kind of my personal history) one who did not/chose not to follow the hints. I assumed that Josh was a gay man, mostly ignored the debates, but on occasion found myself caught up in noting possible gender identity clues, and had thoughts like, "Best uncle ever — taking those nieces shopping!"

I was sad yesterday. Today I find myself examining why. Because this does change some things for me — not the important things, like how much I love/cherish the books, or love/appreciate Josh's brilliance, generosity, and the space created here for all of us, or how much I care for the members of this group whom I've come to consider to be my friends.

And this may be getting to be both deep and shallow on my part, but it did matter to me that I believed I shared some understanding of the world, and of love and romance between men, with a gay man, with one who could express all of this so beautifully. And strangely this is connected to that it still haunts me that decades ago I wanted to join those boys/men who were my friends in the back rooms and bathhouses, that I would have if possible, and that my gender is what saved me.

Knowing that I share some of those same understandings about love and life with a (like me) married woman doesn't diminish the importance of that connection, but it does change things for me. And I am examining why that is, and whether it matters, or to what degree.

My dearest friend of those I couldn't accompany to the bathhouses, accused me angrily, "You think too much!" Yes, that's likely true, not exactly in a Kit way, but yes. And I have to thank Josh for encouraging that, whether blessing or curse. This has been a great place for me, for us, to come and share our thoughts. Thank you, Josh.

[Calathea]

Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And thanks for the additional note, Jo..."

I'm sorry to see you sad, dear Karen. *hugs*

[Johanna]

Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And thanks for the additional note, Jo..."

It breaks my heart to see you sad, dear Karen. And I truly hope this isn't goodbye. Because — like you said — what we have here, in this group, is truly extraordinary. And it wouldn't be like that without Josh. Or without you.

I'm sending hugs.

[Sabine]

Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And thanks for the additional note, Jo..."
Karen it makes me sad, that you are sad. Hug you fiercely!

[Karen]

Johanna wrote: "Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And thanks for the addit..."

Dear Johanna,

No, not a goodbye. Sorry to scare you that way. Just me thinking that I needed to share my feelings here with my friends — because it did affect me, and we share both the glad and sad here.

My feelings are mixed, as I described them. I was also trying to convey that this has more to do with my reaction/response than any of Josh's actions. These feelings are about one's sense of belonging, and to what degree one belongs to any group, or wants to belong. I have always felt very welcomed by all of the members who are active here. I hope I've contributed to making others feel that as well.

Hugging you back. : )

[Karen]

Sabine wrote: "Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And thanks for the addit..."

Thank you, Sabine. Hugs to you.

[Johanna]

Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Karen wrote: "Johanna wrote: "Josh has added an afterthought to his blog post. ..."

Another one of my rambles, out on a limb here a bit...

Thanks for the update, Johanna. And than..."

Jeesus. Don't you EVER scare me like that again, then!!! *imagine a sly smile here*

But seriously, it's because of people like you that this group is such a safe, cosy place. The fact that we can sincerely share our thoughts and feelings — like you did in your post — is what makes it all so special. We've been doing some deep going, insightful pondering together here over the years and we've shared both happiness and sorrow. It started with Josh Lanyon books but fast ended up being even much more. A true friendship. Thank you for your honesty, dear.

An afterthought — I've been so nervous and scared and happy for Josh for weeks now (for his decision to drop the veil) that I tend to forget everyone else aren't feeling the same way at this point. I'm sorry if I come across irritating or something like that. We are all reacting our own way and I've been feeling ridiculously protective of Josh these last days.

[Karen]

Johanna, I can't imagine you coming off "irritating" to anyone! You are so diplomatic (in the best sense of that word) and sincere, and even though we all know there's a thread or two (at least) of frisky mischief in you, it would never be used to hurt others. I think we've all come to count on that!

[Karen]

Barbra and Calathea — thanks for sharing your thoughts and hugs.

[Antonella]

Well, then I might share as well something:

I'm probably the only one here who is not interested in reading Josh's ''other'' backlist. And I feel guilty about this. But I never was into mystery and I already feel overwhelmed by the amount of books I still have to read.

[Kim]

It's been going on 3 years that I first found Josh's books and loved them and gradually started to follow the threads and FB group s, i don't post much but am getting more confident in voicing an opinion.
I am a bit discombobulated because I did have an image in my mind of who Josh was and its going to take me a minute to shift that image I have.
Will I still follow and read JL books yes...do I support Josh yes... I can't imagine how it was having two very different lives on line for that length of time.
I wish Josh a great holiday and and that he...it's difficult because that's what I will have to shift in my mind so but that's my problem.
I hope Josh knows how much support and love is out there, hope everyone has a great week and am eagerly waiting for Josh's new book it should be a lot of fun.

[Johanna]

Antonella wrote: "Well, then I might share as well something:

I'm probably the only one here who is not interested in reading Josh's ''other'' backlist. And I feel guilty about this. But I never was into mystery a..."

Well, I don't think you should feel guilty about that the slightest, Antonella.

Aaaaaand from now on we can start calling the third weekend of September the Coming out Weekend. Anyone else have anything to share? :-)

[Johanna]

Karen wrote: "Johanna, I can't imagine you coming off "irritating" to anyone! You are so diplomatic (in the best sense of that word) and sincere, and even though we all know there's a thread or two (at least) of frisky mischief in you, it would never be used to hurt others. I think we've all come to count on that!"

Ha! I want to have that frisky mischief part added in my CV! :-D

[Kim]

Hi Antonella it's not something I am interested in reading at this time either i don't know why but maybe someday.

[Johanna]

Kim wrote: "It's been going on 3 years that I first found Josh's books and loved them and gradually started to follow the threads and FB group s, i don't post much but am getting more confident in voicing an o..."

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and support, Kim.

[Antonella]

Johanna wrote: "Well, I don't think you should feel guilty about that the slightest, Antonella."

I should read the book I bought in April: Good-Bye to Guilt: Releasing Fear Through Forgiveness ;-).


Johanna wrote: "Aaaaaand from now on we can start calling the third weekend of September the Coming out Weekend. Anyone else have anything to share? :-) "

Ehmm... I think you should avoid the ''coming out'' part, because such expression cannot used ''in vain'' (just reporting a comment).

[Judy]

I will freely admit that I'm not the most tech savvy member of this group. That said, can someone post links to Josh's other pen names? Or set up a topic folder? If we do it before she gets back, we only have to apologize.

BTW, I love mysteries...the knottier the better. Yes, I said knottier but I'm not opposed to naughtier either.:D

I've only been with the group since January 2015. I've come to care for you all and for the first time, I feel welcomed...like I belong. Last year brought major life changes and I survived with the help and kindness of strangers and loved ones. Rather than ramble (too late), I wasn't shocked or horrified (looking at you FB trolls!) about the big reveal. So what? Josh needs and deserves privacy--the same as you and me. My reaction? "Huh? When's the next book out?" Only now...now we can delve into a treasure trove of vintage books! How cool is that?

[Johanna]

Judy wrote: "I will freely admit that I'm not the most tech savvy member of this group. That said, can someone post links to Josh's other pen names? Or set up a topic folder? If we do it before she gets back, we only have to apologize."

LOL. We even have Josh's blessing for this, so not to worry. ;-)

Josh's Books Under Other Pen Names

[Anne]

I'm at a smal hotel in Trier and about to start the first day of biking but had to check in with you guys. Some very lovely and thought provoking posts here. I also have felt a little sad or confused in the beginning even if I told l myself it shouldn't matter. But I created a picture in my mind about Josh based on what I read here and the books and that picture wasn't correct. Just like I paint pictures of you all. But what I have found by reading a few of the other books by Josh/Diane and some blogposts from Diane's blog, is that the important parts of the personality and person I created in my mind is the same still. And I realised it goes for all of us here. The parts we bring to this place are real and important and us but there are other parts we don't see until we meet in person and some we will never meet. And so the picture isn't complete but still real. And I love the parts that I see and am content with that.

And so I go on. And I love mysteries and came to Josh's books through that way so I enjoy the other titles as well. It is very clear they are written by the same person with all the elements I love in Josh's books so I am happy to have more books by a favourite author to read.

And now, biking!

[Karen]

Anne wrote: "I'm at a smal hotel in Trier and about to start the first day of biking but had to check in with you guys. Some very lovely and thought provoking posts here. I also have felt a little sad or confus..."

Happy biking, Anne! Thanks for your thoughtful post.

[Johanna]

Antonella wrote: "Ehmm... I think you should avoid the ''coming out'' part, because such expression cannot used ''in vain'' (just reporting a comment)."

I'm sorry if it sounded inappropriate and disrespectful. It certainly wasn't meant to sound like that.

From my point of view a friend of mine has outed herself, followed by an unnecessary shitstorm and I don't see anything "in vain" about that.

Sorry again.

[Johanna]

Anne wrote: "I'm at a smal hotel in Trier and about to start the first day of biking but had to check in with you guys. Some very lovely and thought provoking posts here. I also have felt a little sad or confus..."

By now you've been biking a long way in beautiful scenery and in good company!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Anne. Wise words, my dear.

[Calathea]

Does anybody wonder if the other side knows?

I have that strange szenario in my head where two people with grown-up children marry and the two sides (fans of Josh and fans of Diana) eye each other warily. Just, one side might be oblivious that there is marriage taking place. :D

Do you think we will like them? Will they like us? ;)

[Calathea]

Anne wrote: "I'm at a smal hotel in Trier and about to start the first day of biking but had to check in with you guys. Some very lovely and thought provoking posts here. I also have felt a little sad or confus..."

I hope the weather holds for your biking tour!

A lot of what you said was on my mind too. I've been thinking about roles (someone mentioned it before) that we adopt when interacting with different people.

[Johanna]

Calathea wrote: "Does anybody wonder if the other side knows?

I have that strange szenario in my head where two people with grown-up children marry and the two sides (fans of Josh and fans of Diana) eye each other..."

LOL.

[Karan]

Calathea wrote: "Does anybody wonder if the other side knows?

I have that strange szenario in my head where two people with grown-up children marry and the two sides (fans of Josh and fans of Diana) eye each other...Do you think we will like them? Will they like us? ;) "

Actually, I've been thinking a lot about that myself. I'm sure it will make for interesting conversation around the dinner table. :)

[Antonella]

Johanna wrote: "I'm sorry if it sounded inappropriate and disrespectful. It certainly wasn't meant to sound like that."

Dear Johanna, I'm sorry, because apparently I didn't make clear enough that I was reporting words I don't approve of, hence my irony with ''in vain'', a reference to the 10 commandments (taking the Lord's name in vain). Not everybody shares a Catholic upbringing.

[Johanna]

Antonella wrote: "Johanna wrote: "I'm sorry if it sounded inappropriate and disrespectful. It certainly wasn't meant to sound like that."

Dear Johanna, I'm sorry, because apparently I didn't make clear enough that ..."

Oh dear. What a relief. Thank you for explaining this, dear Antonella. I've never been really good in joking in English and right now even less so, it seems. *shamefaced*

I'm so sorry I snapped back at you. Please forgive me. I totally misunderstood your comment.