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Milana wrote: "Why do guys always show off in sports?"
thats a good question.
why do guys show off in general??
thats a good question.
why do guys show off in general??
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Ben, this guy just one day out of the blue he yelled "hannah, i think u r hot!" and then he and his friends came out and said "he thinks u r hot." y did he do this??? and was it a joke or does he actually like me???
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Jayda-the only way i can answer that is 2 ask y r girls so confusing.
Milana and Mrs. Archuleta- i think guys show off so much n r so competitive is bcuz of genetics, male animals have 2 compete for female animals. with birds the female pics the one that shows off the best, with most mammals that live in groups the females only mate with the dominant male so whichever one is the stongest. so thats y we do it, its genetics.
Hannah-he might have done it bcuz he is 2 embarrased to come over n say it 2 ur face n felt. . .safer. .sayin it from the comfort of his group. i bet he likes you but i dont know for shure without more info. try askin him if he likes you
xD We're not confusing - you guys make us confused, which in turn makes it seem like we're confusing. That sounded confusing when I said it :)Okay, why do guys flirt like crazy and then get another girlfriend instead of asking their best friend that he's flirting with? :K
A) He actually doesn't know you think he's flirtingB) he thinks he doesn't have a chance with you
C) he's trying to make you jealous
D) you're just a friend and the flirting is just being silly
I hope it's number C...I might be bold the next time he's single and just ask him out. Though just the idea of doing that freaks me out ;.;
OH, I have a good question: Do guys prefer to ask out or to be asked out? And if asked out, than how should girls let you know, especially if you're really good friends and don't want to ruin anything between the two of you?
I don't think guys really want the pressure of having to always ask the girl out.
I don't like asking guys, though x.x I mean, if it's like how I am at dances than I'll probably just never dance because I don't like asking the guys to dance. I'm kind of awkward with guys as it is, so why bother trying to make conversation while you're also trying to dance with each other AND hear what they're saying over the loud music? Yeah, no... Luckily "Parker" (my best guy friend, the one I'm talking about) is easy to talk to and get along with... Because otherwise there'd be no chance with him xD We get really competitive, though. It's funny.
The perfect guy to ask is someone you already know, to avoid that awkwardness. But, if a dance is loud, maybe if you want to ask them, ask them to do something less loud, but fun. Like ice skating! :D
I'd be holding onto him to entire time if we went skating, no matter what kind xD The last time I went I tripped three times and the last time I fell, got up, fell again and tripped a guy who was going really fast. He went flying and broke my back wheel off xD But ice skating + holding onto him the entire time... that sounds good to me! ^^I'm just hoping that when I turn sixteen he'll ask me. If he doesn't when I'm that age I'll ask his parents to let me know when he's single. If he's not going to take the initiative then I suppose I will. We already do a bunch of stuff together, anyway, so what would the difference be except maybe holding hands and hugging more?
See? Totally works. And going to scary movies give you an excuse for a hug "cause you're scared." lolHugging, and kissing! OMG lolololol
Except that he knows that scary movies generally don't scare me xD But I could go to one that really IS scary and jump at a part I didn't expect ^^ Like Star Trek (which is an amazing movie, by the way) there's the one part that I didn't expect and I jumped. This one lady screamed/yelped. It was hilarious.KISSING! :o I hadn't had my first kiss xD I'm scared that I'll mess up.
Well, it's hard to mess up a peck on the lips. If that's all you're going for, then don't worry.Anythings else, I have no idea. X)
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n idk if other guys prefer 2 b asked out or ask someone else out. ive had 4 gfs n ive only asked one of them out. but i would prefer 2 b asked out cuz im scared 2 ask ne girl out cuz i would only emarass myself
but if your askin a good friend out try askin if they want 2 hang out then go 2 a movie n grab his hand at a scary part n dont let go
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why do guys think girls are so complex?
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((fails to supress laughter))
Here's a question. Why do guys act like they like someone, totally lead her on FOR AN ENTIRE SUMMER, then pretend she doesn't exist and start flirting with another girl?
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And then why do guys flirt with girls over the phone and act like the perfect guy but when your at school with them they act like total jerks then competely puts you down?
I have a question, Ben!How would you like a girl to ask if you like her? As in, how should a girl ask? Should she pull him to the side and ask, ask over the phone (which I'd rather NOT do), or should she just flat out let you know her feelings? Like kiss you or something? xD Yeah, the last one is very impossible.
Since it looks like Ben is never going to answer ;-), we might as well figure out our own answers. I think that kind of thing should only ever be done face to face. Doing it through friends might be okay, depending on how old you are. As in, that's slightly Jr. High, but whatever. Never, ever, EVER do it by texting.
This is a dating topic, for asking questions about the opposite sex, right? Well, what if you're gay? (x
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Chels and Katie idk u some guys do that sorry. Guys like that make me mad and give nice guys and guys who really have feeling for a girl a bad name.
Jayda, if u like the guy just go up 2 him and let him know how u feel, if u dont he'll never b sure, and it doesnt look like hes gona say it 2 u first
J wrote: "This is a dating topic, for asking questions about the opposite sex, right? Well, what if you're gay? (x"J! That's just mean!
lol no it isn't but I said it and I'm not taking t back!Hey Ben, I have a question (no I'm not asking if you're a sex offender) should I take my ADHD pill? So I'm not as hyper and looney
It's not mean, it's a fact that should be considered.
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I wasn't lonley okay well I am but only becsause both of my best friends are OUT OF TOWN AND WILL BE OUT OF TOWN FOR MY BIRTHDAY BUT NOW IT'S FOUR DAYS LONG SO....oops aps but I already took it so I'm, better now!
yah well Ih ave trouble focusing...I was trying to talk to this guy and here it went
"Jake! Get cho butt fdown here" *spots bug"OOOH BUGGIE!" *snaps out of it "Jake get cho butt down here agaiN!"
I. Have. FIANLS. I never actually learned this crap.
Lauren wrote: "It's not mean, it's a fact that should be considered. "
THANK YOU.
THANK YOU.
Hey lauren I am always alone so I know what it is like and being alone works for me so what up every one except Nathan and J
I have a question! Why are guys so confusing? x.x