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message 51: by [deleted user] (new)

thankyou ^^


message 52: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
No problem, maybe you should ask questions


message 53: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
I mean of me


message 54: by [deleted user] (new)

umm I dunno, I'm just confused, like at time I feel wrong as a female but uggg it is confusing for me


message 55: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
We'll talking really helps!


message 56: by [deleted user] (new)

I guess, some-what


message 57: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
No talking really does help!


message 58: by Erin (new)

Erin (emm3281) Yeah, it does


message 59: by [deleted user] (new)

meh I am autistic so.....


message 60: by [deleted user] (new)

The Doctor wrote: "I think I am transgender but I am not sure, someone mail me please, I am not sure and I need someone to ask me things to see if I really am :\ I am so confused......."

I am in a similar situation, only kind of opposite. Sometimes I feel okay as a guy, but normally I feel more comfortable as a girl. I can't really experiment because of where I live, but I don't really feel like a guy, even though my body says different.


message 61: by [deleted user] (new)

it is confusing


message 62: by [deleted user] (new)

Yeah, it is... but honestly, my plan is to wait until I can figure it out more and until then I am a boy to everyone in my town.


message 63: by [deleted user] (new)

ya


message 64: by Ollie (new)

Ollie Bradshaw (sebastian-bach) | 316 comments can you be bisexual and transgender. I know Im attracted to both genders but I still feel more comfortable in the male role. I feel more comfortable wearing guy thing I feel more myself when I act and look male


message 65: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
I'm pretty sure you can be exactly what you need to be!


message 66: by Ollie (new)

Ollie Bradshaw (sebastian-bach) | 316 comments I bet thats not how society looks at it


message 67: by Erin (new)

Erin (emm3281) No, that's why society should be ignored


message 68: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
I'm not society, I'm just a friend!


message 69: by Ollie (new)

Ollie Bradshaw (sebastian-bach) | 316 comments k:D


message 70: by Erin (new)

Erin (emm3281) I know


message 71: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
See the people that matter don't care!


message 72: by Erin (new)

Erin (emm3281) Exactly!


message 73: by Ollie (new)

Ollie Bradshaw (sebastian-bach) | 316 comments thanks guys


message 74: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Anytime!


message 75: by Erin (new)

Erin (emm3281) You're welcome


message 76: by Mhairi (new)

Mhairi | 213 comments I think that I might be a bisexual but I don't know and I'm really confused!!! :/


message 77: by Mhairi (new)

Mhairi | 213 comments i'm just so confused !!


message 78: by Mhairi (new)

Mhairi | 213 comments its just sometime I feel attracted to girls and sometime I don't


message 79: by Mhairi (new)

Mhairi | 213 comments I don't know its just... right I have this friend and sometimes I just want to kiss her


message 80: by Mhairi (new)

Mhairi | 213 comments Ok right thank you so much


message 81: by Mhairi (new)

Mhairi | 213 comments *hugs*


message 82: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Ok, well that's good then.


message 83: by Gabrielle (new)

Gabrielle (gabbilynn24) | 4 comments I found out I was bi sexual when I was in high school & one of my bi sexual friends was hitting on me. I have only came out to my closest friends & my past boyfriends. My fiance knows & thinks its perfectly fine because he dated a boy when he was younger. I'm so glad I have hI'm to support me in life & I'm so glad he doesn't judge me for it. I would love to one day tell my family but my mom is very conservative & is VERY against liking the same sex. I'm conservative too but I believe you should love who loves you & if your a man & you love a man then you should be with them end of story. I dont understand how people can say the things they do. Were a changing & evolving world ! Why does everyone have to be stuck in the past?. Why can't we love & be with who we want to love?.


message 84: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Gabrielle, I agree with you, but a lot of people are afraid of change. The support you have is awesome!
As you said love is love!


message 85: by Holly (new)

Holly (hollycoulson) Fully out and proud as gay. Well, except to my extended family, but I have no urge to tell them. They'll work it out if I get a girlfriend.

Ultimately, coming out is hard, I've been through it, but it was a very positive experience for me, albeit nerve-racking, but it brought me closer to a lot of my friends.

Be happy with who you are.


message 86: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Well hopefully your family will take it fine, it is great that your friends are there for you!


message 87: by [deleted user] (new)

Aaron wrote: "Yeah, I'm sure it would be overwhelming for you. It's not easy, is it, admitting to family that you're gay. Even if they love you, it's still a shock for them.

A friend of mine came out to his family and they kicked him out of the house. I think that was terrible! Your own flesh and blood?

Other parents accept it and get used to the idea.

All I'm saying is you can't keep it a secret forever. It'll eat you up inside.

I just wish you much happiness and peace of mind"



I can keep it to myself forever. I probably will.


message 88: by [deleted user] (new)

Not a healthy choice. It will eat you up inside, affect your health. Be proud, be true to yourself. You have nothing to be ashamed of, and if people don't like it...they can go fly a kite.


message 89: by [deleted user] (new)

Fly a what? Never mind that.
I think it's healthy. I'll be fine. I've went hiding it two years. I will be fine going much longer.


message 90: by Jennifer (new)

 Jennifer Wise Would like to talk to others going through transition from Male to Female, as well as Transsexuals.
My Yahoo messenger is: jenniferwise216.
NO IMPOSTERS!


message 91: by Ken (new)

Ken (kensamcampo) What do you mean by Getting "out"?


Caitlin (CraziiCat♥) (randomroyale) | 136 comments Look I'm thinking of taking a huge step n coming out to my parents, however I really don't know how to because I'm a shy, awkward human being.
Any suggestions?


message 93: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Sora, you are funny!


message 94: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Works for me!


message 95: by Wren (new)

Wren  (wrenreaders) Team Salvatore wrote: "What do you mean by Getting "out"?"

it means "coming out" with your sexuality if you are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or some other sexual minority.


message 96: by Ollie (new)

Ollie Bradshaw (sebastian-bach) | 316 comments I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders since i've came out even though it has had its downs its so worth it.


message 97: by Angelique (new)

Angelique (angeltrin1) | 17820 comments Mod
Congratulation Dona, you will always have our support!


message 98: by [deleted user] (new)

Fortune favours the brave Dona. Well Done !


message 99: by Ollie (new)

Ollie Bradshaw (sebastian-bach) | 316 comments Thanks!


message 100: by Wren (new)

Wren  (wrenreaders) i need some advice! im starting at a new school, and i want people to know, from the beginning, that i am bi so that if they are homophobic they wont bother me. also, so that other lgbt know. any advice?


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