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So our menu
Hummus, Baba Ganoush, Guacamole with crackers & carrot sticks
Salmon (the girls are cooking)
Ham on the bone
Roast..."
Ok, I’m coming to dinner!

It's a pain to travel in, but it's great when you're inside looking out! "
That's the truth!

Tomorrow we can sleep in and my siblings will drop in and we'll exchange gifts. I got some nice loose leaf tea so I can sip tea and read.
Merry Christmas to everyone who celebrates!

Those are the best presents! I got my grandgirl a decorating set for her birthday a couple of weeks ago, and she said it was the best present ever. Grownup things to do are the most fun!


Merry Christmas to my fellow GH fans who celebrate that holiday. and happy reading wishes to all.

The best reaction to a gift I got was from 6 year old nephew who finally discovered there IS life other than video games. Card games can be fun too. Who knew? ;-)
Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

This Christmas has been rather weird for me. For the past 2-3 months my elderly dad was in the hospital and then hospice at the nursing home. He died and we buried him the week before Christmas. And, in a style befitting my Southern daddy, we had a huge party!, with great food and people coming to Maryland from all over the South to mourn, laugh and celebrate his life. I'll miss him and I'm sad, but I'm also thankful that he didn't suffer in his last days (I think he just got tired of living). I'm also exhausted and I finally succumbed (just in time for Christmas Eve!!) to a horrible, nasty sore throat and cold. I was determined not to have a dreary Christmas so I forced myself to put candles in all the windows and some greenery about the house. Too tired to put up my usual two Christmas trees so I just threw some strings of lights on the fireplace mantels --- and it's really quite cozy and I'm thinking I may have to just skip the trees again in years to come!
And now I'm looking forward to cozy, quiet reading of some Christmas books in the next week or two .... a little late, but still fun! And I'm VERY much looking forward to picking up The Toll-Gate in January!! I miss GH!

Looking forward to The Toll-Gate, too!


Oh Jane, I am so sorry!
My late mother's birthday was on the 20th of December & she died on the 26th, so I am always a little low before Christmas. The good thing is, my kids come home for Christmas & they help me get through it.

Yes, I’m in Greensboro! You are so right about the holiday memories and feelings, both happy and sad. Your tea sounds amazing! I think I’ll have to make a good cuppa after lunch...Savor it, peace and serenity to you!

Oh, Carol, I’m sorry, but so glad you have the kids and comfort of good memories to get you through the sad times. My mom’s birthday was December 22, so I feel you.

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I know just how you are feeling, Jane. My Mum died on Christmas Eve afternoon. She wasn't well and we knew she was terminal, but all doctors said 6-8 weeks, but around 11am that morning she haemorrhaged from her liver, so by 3.30pm she was gone with hardly time for goodbyes. With the suddenness of her passing that Christmas was quite eerie. Even though that was 32 years ago, I remember it like yesterday.

It must be extra hard for you and Susan to remember your moms' birthdays and deaths right around Christmas. (I imagine this Christmas might be hard for Teresa, too.) I'm glad you have family to help add some sweetness to the sadness, to share in the old memories and to keep making new memories.
I'm actually looking forward to January. I'm retired so I want to take some time to just relax and hibernate. I would love some snow to make my hibernation even cozier!!! (Hopefully we don't get 36 inches and I regret that previous sentence and end up wishing I was in warm NZ with Carol!!)


Oh Lesley, I'm so sorry about your mom! And on Christmas Eve, how terribly sad. I think the suddenness would make it extra hard to handle and I'm sorry that happened for you. (At least with my Dad, at the end, we had plenty of time to just sit and hold hands and look at photos and listen to good music and love on him.) And no matter how long ago your mom died, I know it still can hurt to think about. And the eeriness you spoke of is so true, there's nothing quite like that quiet, eerie feeling in the house after someone dies. Thirty years ago we rushed my mom to the hospital for emergency surgery the week before Christmas and found out she had a huge brain tumor that couldn't be healed. That was another very unsettling Christmas (although she somehow defied all the doctor's predictions and lived through one more Christmas).
What is it with people dying around the holidays?!? I used to work in eldercare and this phenomenon always baffled me. I suppose there are lots of us out there who have tears along with joy during the holidays.
I'm looking forward to the group-read of The Toll-Gate because I think that will be a fun diversion. Nothing like Georgette Heyer to help pull us out of any doldrums!!

Susan, I know!! I'm crazy to wish for snow! Almost all of my relatives are in the south and most of them are in NC; we were amazed at how many shoveled out of the snow and ice and came up to MD for the funeral (crazy family!).

Yes, indeed!

Susan, I know..."
The strange part was having to shovel; as you probably know from your NC relatives, we usually enjoy the rare snow from inside the house with our bread and milk everyone rushes to buy, wait a day, and it melts away on its own!
But God love ‘em for making the effort so they could come see your dad off!

Sunday we were due to drive up to Aberdeen with son and daughter-i-l and granddaughter to have a pre Christmas lunch with our grandson and his girlfriend. A rare opportunity to be together and one we were looking forward to.
However, on Thursday, I start with a snuffle and sore throat and my husband starts to show signs of a heavy cold. By Saturday night we are fully infected and unfit and have cancelled out; and our son has been and done the Santa thing - exchanging presents and cards.
On Christmas Day, my husband George brought my 93 year old Mum (who has Alzheimer’s), up to our place for Christmas dinner. I got up out of bed, ate 1 slice of Turkey and 2 sprouts, drank a glass of champagne and then went back to bed and slept.
We had been due to go to a hotel for 2 nights to celebrate our wedding anniversary yesterday, but that got cancelled too. Today is our anniversary and I woke up with conjunctivitis, still stuffed up and my chest feeling like it had been wrapped in a brace - and then slept for most of the day.
So that was Christmas 2018 - here’s hoping for an improved 2019! Sending best wishes to you all and looking forward to reading The Toll-Gate!

Sunday we were due to drive up to Aberdeen with son and daughter-i-l and g..."
Amen, sister, to a better 2019 - I feel your pain, I was diagnosed with shingles on Christmas Eve! So, it’s been an itchy, burning holiday for me - but I am so sorry about your anniversary and Christmas holiday plans scuppered! I hope you and George feel better very soon and get to make up for your anniversary trip - and enjoy Hogmanay- I hope you’re both healthier by then!


Good to hear - it’ll perk up the January blahs to take your anniversary trip, and thanks! I’m just glad I got in for the last appointment of the day before my doctor’s office closed on Christmas Eve at noon - by getting on the antiviral meds quickly I think it’s helped lessen the attack, and I learned I can still get the shingles vaccine once this clears up, and I will! I recommend everyone do it - I didn’t think I was at risk until I was older, but surprise!😱🥵


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So so sorry to hear about your Dad. Never easy to lose them but it seems extra cruel at this time of year. Glad to hear you're looking forward to The Toll Gate. One of my favs so hopefully we'll have some good chat about it. Be better soon.

It was borrowed from Jane Austen, who quipped that Pride and Prejudice was rather too "light, bright and sparkling." The description fits Georgette Heyer's novels better!

Scotland Susan, oh, you poor thing!! The conjunctivitis was just like a cherry on the top of all that yuckiness! Here's hoping you feel better soon and have a lovely Anniversary celebration in January!
NC Susan, oh, you poor thing, too!! Shingles?! Yuck. When Merck first came out with the vaccine I was in charge of vaccination clinics and it was so hard to convince people that they needed the shot. Most people don't think they need it until it's too late or they meet someone experiencing the excruciating pain. I'm glad to hear you were able to start antiviral meds so quickly and I hope you start to feel some relief.
Pooh Bear, I love the notion of "light, bright and sparkling".
I'm looking forward to a sparkling 2019!!!


Yay! And Meet Me in St. Louis, one of my favorites! They might get a kick out of the portrayal of life back then, particularly the two little girls’ Halloween exploits!

And a happy, mellow new year to all!

I love that film, and that era of movies!

A wish for a Happy New Year!
Dear lord, may 2019 be better than 2018!"
Amen, sister!

Me, too!

A wish for a Happy New Year!
Dear lord, may 2019 be better than 2018!"
Amen to that Barb!!!

From the hysteria that occurs anytime 'snow' is mentioned in the forecast, the non-Maryland observer would have thought we were facing the 'end of times' But no--a mere 4-6 inches in our neighborhood. However, schools in the area are already closed for tomorrow.
Here's hoping everyone is having a good start to the new year---with or without snow!

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So our menu
Hummus, Baba Ganoush, Guacamole with crackers & carrot sticks
Salmon (the girls are cooking)
Ham on the bone
Roast potatoes
Salad
A cake I made that I'm sure will taste better than it looks
Brandy Snaps
Boysenberries with Greek Yoghurt.