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Gilmore Girls Discussions > Dean, Jess or Logan?

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message 551: by Sammy (new)

Sammy Young (darcyalcottpotter) I think we can all agree that each and everyone of Rory’s relationships and boyfriends were extremely unhealthy. Dean was unbelievably possessive and controlling, and let’s be honest just plain weird. Jess was awful when they were dating he ignored her and wanted the relationship to be solely on his terms; then there’s the whole scene at Kyles party. Logan was downright dysfunctional; everyone debates whether or not he actually cheated on Rory and if he holds any responsibility in her downfall but my biggest issue with him is how often he gaslit Rory. He has such a bad habit for gaslighting and that’s a really brutal thing for anyone to experience.
I’ll be honest I’m a huge Jess fan I swoon every time he’s on tv 😳 but then I think to myself would I have dated Jess if I were Rory? The answer is adamantly no. Even future Jess, who is my favourite part of GG, is a no for me because I could never date someone if they had tried to cross my boundaries like that no matter how far in the past. I think it’s best to view Rory’s relationships as a what-not-to-do guide. And that’s not even mentioning all of her own dysfunctional habits.😅


message 552: by anushka jog (new)

anushka jog | 2 comments jess


message 553: by Ailén (new)

Ailén Olivera (ailen778olivera) | 2 comments Defenetly Jess! from the beggining I felt like they were soulmates. There just weren1t the same kind of connection between Rory and Logan, even though I really liked me.
Rory and Dean were not for one another. Dean was toxic, tbh.


message 554: by Perysh (new)

Perysh | 5 comments Always been jess


message 555: by Ellie (new)

Ellie (elliesbooks28) | 2 comments Team Jess all the way!


message 556: by J (new)

J Modi (goodreadscomjmodi) | 7 comments okay jess is definitely the best one but I don't think rory deserved him. honestly she was kind of spoiled so i think her and logan match well. but jess is my fav character of the 3 for sure. although i am def down to debate this


message 557: by elsie (new)

elsie Logan all the way


message 558: by Emily (new)

Emily | 9 comments Jess, because I think they worked so well together.


message 559: by maddie ʚ♡ɞ (new)

maddie ʚ♡ɞ (bambieyedangel111) | 2 comments jess’s personality in dean’s body


message 560: by Kendi (new)

Kendi | 11 comments Logan, and I'll tell you why.

He keeps her on her toes. There's never a dull moment with him around, every moment is a thrill. He truly loves her, and shows his affection. He is a bit immature... (oh, who am I kidding? he's VERY immature) at some times, but honestly, who isn't? There's just something exciting about that whole relationship.

I don't really like Dean. I feel like that whole relationship was toxic. I didn't think that they really had that much chemistry. It just seemed forced... And then that whole thing with Lindsey... *shudder*

Jess... well, I have mixed feelings about Jess. At first, I didn't like him at all. His attitude is really off-putting. I know some girls really dig the bad boy thing, but I don't. As we started to see a nicer side of him, though, I started to warm up to him. But still, I don't think he's the right match for Rory. He may have cared about her, and yes, he got her to snap out of her "sloth" phase after the boat incident, but he didn't treat her the way she deserved. Maybe in later years, if he matures enough like we started to see in AYITL, but for now, I still say Logan.


message 561: by nella εϊз (new)

nella εϊз | 1 comments jess anyday


message 562: by Vi (new)

Vi (kvysin) | 3 comments jess


message 563: by kacey 💌 (new)

kacey 💌 | 3 comments Jess 100% I wanted him and Rory to end up together. I do love Logan though, but i'll always be team Jess.


Theperksofbeeinglu | 2 comments Jess
The one who really loved her .


zlata ౨ৎ⋆ ˚。⋆ (zlatacantread) logan 100% but maybe grown up jess...


message 566: by . (new)

. (rippl3s) | 1 comments jess !!!!!


message 567: by rorygilmore (new)

rorygilmore | 1 comments J E S S !!!


message 568: by L. Soper (new)

L. Soper Hands down Jess!

Dean was the perfect first boyfriend for Rory, but she needed more.

Jess came along at the right time for her; he matched her intelligence and challenged her mentally and emotionally.

I thought very little of Logan.


message 569: by Cindy (new)

Cindy Walsh (cindyrunner) | 25 comments Margie wrote: "https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8YE4SNt/ here's Joey's opinion on Logan lol"

Ha Ha Ha This was a great and funny clip.. love it


message 570: by LJ (new)

LJ Eames | 1 comments Logan!


message 571: by Emily (new)

Emily | 1 comments Logan 100%


message 572: by Gina (new)

Gina Jhajj | 1 comments Helloooo LOGAN. Dean was a jerk, and a HUGE red flag. Jess was unpredictable and quite honestly, a lot. Logan was Rory's person. He pushed her, but not too much and he helped her grab the world by it
's balls. Love love love.


message 573: by lourdes (new)

lourdes (louarg) jess for me and logan for rory lol


message 574: by Bailey (new)

Bailey Weeks | 21 comments Jess for sure. He understood her and although he was predictable he was respectful towards her and had a soft spot for her.
I'm all for a bad boy that is soft for his girl though


message 575: by Bailey (new)

Bailey Weeks | 21 comments Cindy wrote: "Margie wrote: "https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8YE4SNt/ here's Joey's opinion on Logan lol"

Ha Ha Ha This was a great and funny clip.. love it"


Oh yeah! Definitely agree with this one! Lol


message 576: by Esperanza (new)

Esperanza (peritalinda) Jess!!


message 577: by Kyra (new)

Kyra Schmitke | 2 comments team Jesse!!!!!


message 578: by sonya ✿ (new)

sonya ✿ | 1 comments jess because she was the best version of herself with him, she was bubbly and creative, and with logan, even tho he’s a bettter bf she was a train wreck lol


message 579: by kiki (new)

kiki am i the only one who remembers jess ignoring rory when she said “no” to having sex?…. team logan all the way


message 580: by lau (new)

lau | 1 comments ok but why isn't tristan an option


message 581: by ari (new)

ari  | 3 comments logan


message 582: by ari (new)

ari  | 3 comments logan best bf


message 583: by Ava (new)

Ava (avakroening) | 3 comments Jess! Or Logan. But definitely not Dean.


message 584: by Jora (new)

Jora | 5 comments Older Jess!!


message 585: by Radhika (new)

Radhika I personally like Milo so Jess but Logan was the best for Rory.


message 586: by Svea (new)

Svea | 2 comments Definitely TRISTAN , no one can convince me otherwise .


message 587: by Claudia (new)

Claudia | 2 comments I would die for Jess. He’s the blueprint for any guy I ever liked.


message 588: by Kristal (new)

Kristal | 1 comments I've always had a crush on Logan


message 589: by anne (new)

anne | 1 comments jess!! i have to say that at the beginning of season 2 i didn’t like him at all but soon enough i realized that i was so wrong. he always understood rory and was the only one that shared her same interests so team jess till the end. even though i like logan so much, if jess didn’t exist he would’ve been my first choice for sure


message 590: by Vanessa (new)

Vanessa | 1 comments Jess for sure


message 591: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Monahan (lisalovestories) | 1 comments Definitely Jess! It breaks my heart because I think they were perfect for each other at the wrong times😭 when they were young, Rory was way too good for him and when they grew up he was way too good for her:(((
I think Logan was a great friend to Rory but I didn’t like them as a couple.


message 592: by sid :) (new)

sid :) (sidrg) | 4 comments jess was her soulmate but it just never was the right time..but honestly i did like logan


message 593: by bea marie (new)

bea marie | 1 comments jess jess jess jess jess


message 594: by Molly (new)

Molly (theonethatreadsbooks) i personally like jess a lot better bc he’s my type, but i think when they were older he was way too good for her. rory changed a lot after chilton and i think logan and her are much better together than her and jess would’ve been if they stayed together. so team jess for me but team logan for rory lol


message 595: by Rosa (new)

Rosa | 1 comments Neither, team Tristan, still mad to this day that he didn’t have more of a story line even though it was the actor who left and he was supposed to have Logan’s story line


message 596: by Charlie (new)

Charlie Vaden | 1 comments Team Jess all the way! Their relationship was just meant for one another...the only issue I saw was his uncle was Luke so Lorelai and Luke vs Rory and Jess


message 597: by Siena (new)

Siena Keller (instagramcomsienasbookclub) | 2 comments LOGAN4LIFE


message 598: by chichi ✭ (new)

chichi ✭ I feel like Logan is similar to Rory and they match well like that, but Jess complements her better and makes her a better person, 100% team Jess. But the fact Tristan never got a chance is evil smh


message 599: by Elisa (new)

Elisa team jess ALL THE WAY <33


message 600: by Carolina (new)

Carolina Hernandes (carolzher) | 2 comments jess


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