“I know that what I consider confidence is mistaken by most for me wanting to be sexy. Being ace doesn’t mean I’m a prude or modest or celibate. It means I don’t experience sexual attraction. Point-blank, period. It has nothing to do with how I feel about my body. Nothing to do with how I choose to express myself. Nothing to do with me trying to attract a man or ‘trick’ people. Get past it or don’t. It’s not my problem. I’m not responsible for someone else’s arousal when everything I do is for myself.”
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Claire Kann,
The Romantic Agenda