“The key is to make the spanking last a while. There's a saying in the “community” that goes something like, “A real spanking begins when the recipient is ready for it to end.” I believe this is true. Don't be afraid to take some time. His bottom may be red as fire, but trust me, he is okay!”
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Rebecca Lawson,
The Good Wife's Guide to Taking Charge: A Female-Led-Relationship Primer