“I find out what I really want by seeing what I do,” said Ender. “That's what we all do, if we're honest about it. We have our feelings, we make our decisions, but in the end we look back on our lives and see how sometimes we ignored our feelings, while most of our decisions were actually rationalizations because we had already decided in our secret hearts before we ever recognized it consciously.”
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Orson Scott Card,
Children of the Mind
