“#1 sins go unconfessed because they feel too great, #2 sins go unconfessed because they feel too small. You can get her to think, “I do this every day. You can’t go through a big conversation every time, can you?” You see? This way, you get her to pile up months of crusted-over “small” sins. She and her husband will go picking their way around the piles, stepping on old trash left from a silent supper three months ago, and they’ll stop noticing it’s even there. As long as they never begin the habit of confession, they’ll build this delightful tartar of the soul for years. This is how hatred begins, Hemlock. Don’t underestimate it.”
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Tilly Dillehay,
My Dear Hemlock