“Try to be thoughtful,
don't make the poor man say it;
see how human he is,
he has children of his own,
it is your job to ask:
Is she dead?And he will nod and say
yesAnd now he can never not nod.
And now he can never say no.
And now he can never not say
yes.”
―
Kathleen Sheeder Bonanno,
Slamming Open the Door