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Hey guys, I´m coming to you with a rather vulnerable topic this time, but I am putting my pride aside, because my wonderful bestie SK told me that there is no shame in asking. Your girl got a boyfriend (I know, shocker) but him and I have recently been in a few tough situations and hard times(not the relationship, just individually), one of them is me being unemployed and having it damn hard finding a job, so having to live off limited savings, since I am also getting no money from the county. Since we want to spend the christmas time together, but are long distance (Germany and England), this is another obstacle we face. I would be able to finance my flights, but cant finance the airbnb on my own, and since his current living situation is difficult, I cant live with him for the time being. I was thinking of creating a gofundme, because all I want to do is get to hug my boyfriend for christmas, but I dont know if people would even donate to this. So I´m asking for your honest opinion before I completely embarass myself.
Yes, I think people would donate to make a little christmas miracle possible
No, I think people would think its not essential enough/is more of a luxury
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Nov 11, 2026 05:07AM
Worth giving it a shot imo. Got my fingers crossed. But it's always wise to get a broader look into things. Hopefully, people will have a logically compassionate take on this. You got this!
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SK wrote: "Worth giving it a shot imo. Got my fingers crossed. But it's always wise to get a broader look into things. Hopefully, people will have a logically compassionate take on this. You got this!"It feels so embarassing to even do this, ngl
I totally get that. But never know, there might be good suggestions here. Have faith, bestie. x
100% people would donate. (I would donate lol) if you have TikTok, I’d post it there too. If you don’t, I’d be happy to share it on my account.
BY MISTAKE I CHOSE THE WRONG ANSWER!! I was meant to press the yes because in my opinion it shouldn't be bad to start a gofundme, you want to spent time with your loved one of course it's not wrong or something bad for you not to create a gofundme, so I'm completely positive that you will succeed!
📚 wrote: "100% people would donate. (I would donate lol) if you have TikTok, I’d post it there too. If you don’t, I’d be happy to share it on my account."I have TikTok, but I´m kind of ashamed of people from my "real life" finding it if that makes sense
Georgia wrote: "BY MISTAKE I CHOSE THE WRONG ANSWER!! I was meant to press the yes because in my opinion it shouldn't be bad to start a gofundme, you want to spent time with your loved one of course it's not wrong..."I just feel like people could argue that it´s not a necessity or that I should just wait etc I dont know if I make sense
Aww I would totally help if I could hopefully the long distance would work out for them at first inrwad it that you have a boyfriend I’m like YAAASS QUEEN! 🫣 I would suggest like other people have a go fund me if there finances are struggling to pay for flights and accommodations what not I’m sure a little Christmas miracle would be amazing for them !! 🫂
Meg wrote: "Aww I would totally help if I could hopefully the long distance would work out for them at first inrwad it that you have a boyfriend I’m like YAAASS QUEEN! 🫣 I would suggest like other people have ..."Thank you girl <3
The plan is to relocate to him to England in the long run, but visa´s and everything are such a long process
I see people donating to other things that might not be consider worthy. I feel your case is just as important to you as a lot of other cases. I wish the best, and hope you have a Christmas. I also would suggest praying about it, he gives the best advice.🥰
~Jennifer~ wrote: "I see people donating to other things that might not be consider worthy. I would suggest praying about it, he gives the best advice.🥰"Thank you girl <3
don’t be ashamed about this bb <3 post your story on tiktok, insta or snapchat and people will connect. worth the shot!
lena wrote: "don’t be ashamed about this bb <3 post your story on tiktok, insta or snapchat and people will connect. worth the shot!"Thank you! <3 I dont think I´m ready to post to socials, I´m kind of ashamed of people from my "real life" finding it if that makes sense
heya bestie!!! for sure worth the question. i feel like we should put way less of a taboo on money anyways. I would love to share some of my funds but im also broke so I couldn't :((( but just know I would've if I also didn't have to pay for my apartment and my school tuition!!!! for sure worth a shot. hope you can hug ur bf during Christmas <3 <3 <3
Its worth a shit! And im so sorry youre going through that babe! It sucks! I hope it all works out in your favor💗💗
Queen I love, love so my vote is yes. Give it a shot. You will unfortunately always get trolls, that is just the way the cookie crumbles but take a chance. Amything worth it is taking a chance on
Milo (if lost, return to hot fictional character) wrote: "heya bestie!!! for sure worth the question. i feel like we should put way less of a taboo on money anyways. I would love to share some of my funds but im also broke so I couldn't :((( but just know..."Oh my god so lovely to hear from you again, I´ve missed you!
Yeah its crazy how many young people struggle so much with money and are jobless currently and the countries offer no help to those young people our age. It makes you so afraid of the future!
⋆. wrote: "Its worth a shit! And im so sorry youre going through that babe! It sucks! I hope it all works out in your favor💗💗"Your misspelling just now made me chuckle, so thank you for that! <33 And thanks! Yeah I´ve been applying to jobs like crazy, at least 5 per day but some just wont even give the dignity of a reply, its mad.
~❁Monique❁~ wrote: "Queen I love, love so my vote is yes. Give it a shot. You will unfortunately always get trolls, that is just the way the cookie crumbles but take a chance. Amything worth it is taking a chance on"Thank you so much! <3 I think I´m gonna try and do it. I´ve already talked through all options with him and we feel a bit stuck, so might be worth a shot.
