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oka guys i know this is really weird but i think i got blocked by someone and i wanna know if i did something wrong so help me out pls 😭
they were asking for new friends on like an update and so i went on their profile and they seemed nice but it did have a lot of christian stuff and i see a lot of people on goodreads (of course not all!!!) that are religious and homophobic, so i commented a question to ask if they supported lgtbq and now im blocked
so was it disrespectful 😭😭 i seriously didn’t mean it like that but idk if it came off as weird

seems normal to
me
 
  24 votes, 100.0%

it was disrespectful
 
  0 votes, 0.0%

i have no idea
 
  0 votes, 0.0%


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˚✧⁎Sayurii⁺˳✧༚ {expectations ver.} I think the person was the conservative type of Christian (respectfully, I know what all Christians don’t act like this). And they thought your question was disrespectful or offensive?
I’m my opinion you did nothing wrong.


message 2: by coconut reads (new)

coconut reads ˚✧⁎Sayurii⁺˳✧༚ wrote: "I think the person was the conservative type of Christian (respectfully, I know what all Christians don’t act like this). And they thought your question was disrespectful or offensive?
I’m my opin..."
thank youuu that’s what i thought too but i wanted to check with other people in case i was being delusional 😭


anna ۶ৎ (semi ia) yeah i really don't get why they blocked you, it's literally just a question about their beliefs


Bloomy Soul [ hiatus ] don't feel sad, love !! you were just asking, maybe the other person didn't get your question..


message 5: by coconut reads (new)

coconut reads Bloomy Soul [ hiatus ] wrote: "don't feel sad, love !! you were just asking, maybe the other person didn't get your question.."

thank you <33 it was hopefully just a misunderstanding


message 6: by coconut reads (new)

coconut reads anna ۶ৎ (semi ia) wrote: "yeah i really don't get why they blocked you, it's literally just a question about their beliefs"

yeahhh and i tried to phrase it respectfully but idk i guess people online can get offended a bit easily 😭


kami (estelle, you'll never be forgotten⊹ . ݁ ⟡) As a Christian (I support lgbtq trust) ik a lot of people who would take that as somewhat offensive. In their perspective some people just feel uncomfortable about the topic, hence not really supporting it. You did nothing wrong! You asked a perfectly fine question, but they could have just felt triggered, which isn’t really the right word but it’s the best I can think of. Just know it’s not your fault, it’s just their beliefs🫶🏾💖 if you need to talk more I’m here!!💗


message 8: by zee (new)

zee i’m assuming this person didn’t support lgbt+ because of their religion or some sort and the question must’ve made them uncomfortable? honestly this just means you don’t have to be around someone possibly homophobic

don’t feel upset though! you did nothing wrong, it’s a normal question to ask especially if you’re part of the community & all too


LucyReads (semi-active) I'm a Christian who doesn't support LGBTQ+, but I can't say why they would've blocked you. I can see why it might've made them uncomfortable, but I can easily say that it would've been no problem for me, at least, to happily respond to your question to give you the information you needed. If they were a Christian who didn't support LGBTQ+, I'd assume that they thought that you did support it, and didn't want lots of updates clashing with their beliefs. However, I believe everything you did was reasonable and normal, so don't feel bad.


Emma T (DaughterOfAslan2362) LucyReads (semi-active) wrote: "I'm a Christian who doesn't support LGBTQ+, but I can't say why they would've blocked you. I can see why it might've made them uncomfortable, but I can easily say that it would've been no problem f..."

I second that!


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