Refuse to Choose!: Use All of Your Interests, Passions, and Hobbies to Create the Life and Career of Your Dreams

by Barbara Sher

ko·an n: a Zen Buddhist riddle used to focus the mind during meditation and to develop intuitive thinking Q:How long should you stay at something? A:However long it takes to get what you came for. Q:How do you decide what you came for? A:You don’t, you discover it. Q:How do you discover it? A:You notice what isn’t there anymore when you feel like leaving.