Second of all, a Queen is never summoned. You can’t just ring her up and get her to pop over, no matter how delectable the treats are that you are offering. She doesn’t say, “How high?” when you say, “Jump!” She has her own life, her own agenda, her own ways of doing things. To give up this privilege is a grievous mistake. No matter how difficult, it is far better to give up a relationship in which you can be summoned than stick around and hope for the best.