If You’re Anxious, You Should Be Dating Someone Secure Because: You: want closeness and intimacy. They: are comfortable with closeness and don’t try to push you away. You: are very sensitive to any signs of rejection (vigilant attachment system). They: are very consistent and reliable and won’t send mixed messages that will upset you. If you become distressed, they know how to reassure you. You: find it hard to tell them directly what you need and what’s bothering you (effective communication), and use protest behavior instead. They: see your well-being as a top priority and do their best to
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