Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love

by Amir Levine

Basically, secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving;

Their behavior no longer seemed baffling and complex, but rather predictable under the circumstances.

to single out a few specific individuals in our lives and make them precious to us.

If you want to take the road to independence and happiness, find the right person to depend on and travel down it with that person.

Being warm and loving in a relationship comes naturally to you. You enjoy being intimate without becoming overly worried about your relationships.

The study showed that people with an anxious attachment style tend to jump to conclusions very quickly, and when they do, they tend to misinterpret people’s emotional state.