Examples of Secure Principles Be available. Don’t interfere. Act encouragingly. Communicate effectively. Don’t play games. View yourself as responsible for your partner’s well-being. Wear your heart on your sleeve—be courageous and honest in your interactions. Maintain focus on the problem at hand. Don’t make generalizations during conflict. Douse the flame before it becomes a forest fire—attend to your partner’s upsets before they escalate.
