I started to refocus my definition of success on process rather than on results. Had I tried my best? Had I given it my all? If I could honestly answer yes to both of those questions and it still did not go my way, then—out of necessity—I had to have faith in the belief that I was collecting these “nos” on the way to “yesses,” and if the “yesses” never came, then I would know when it was time to move on.
