Told her it was the alcohol or the drugs that made you do it? • Told her that if you couldn’t have her no one could? • Idolized her? • Obsessed about her all the time? • Flew into rages? • Went cold, and stayed cold? • Drove recklessly with her (and/or the kids) in the car? • Failed to give her messages from people who called? • Defined and dictated her role as mother, homemaker? • Got jealous when she bought new clothes, put on makeup, got a new hairstyle? • Goaded her into talking about other men, then condemned
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