You were so busy at home that I rarely saw you engage in any hobbies, Mummy, and as a girl I assumed that you simply had no interests. It is embarrassing now to admit that I could have ever believed that. But in our house, everyone fulfilled a duty: Papa provided, you nurtured, Yush and I achieved. These jobs defined our identities, so I never thought about what you might want for yourself beyond meeting the expectations of the role you played.
