Whatever you did, take comfort that you did it out of love and hope, trying to do the right thing when there was no clear right thing to do. You chose a direction in a medical world with too many mixed messages to understand what is and what is not the right decision. Whether you lean toward aggressive treatment or a more passive approach, questioning what you did after your loved one has died is normal. Fortunately or unfortunately, though, there is some relief in the air because they are no longer suffering.
