surrounded by stacks of papers, piles of shoes and clothes, and dozens of boxes of sentimental trinkets, my husband had a conversation with me that changed my life. He asked me to sit next to him, took my hand in his, and told me he could no longer live with all of my clutter. He said he wanted to build a remarkable life with me, but all of my stuff was getting in the way. There were so many of my possessions crammed, packed, and shoved into our 850-square-foot
