It turns out it is the person who lacks self-esteem who finds it hardest to serve others, to put others’ interests first. Self-centred behaviour is a symptom of insecurity – the hallmark of a lack of confidence. Bravado is the blustering of self-doubt. The ability to serve is born not of weakness, but of strength. Service is a discipline. Far from turning us into pushovers who disregard our self-worth and then invite others to do the same, learning the art and discipline of serving can transform and empower us, helping us to recognise not only our worth but also the value of everyone else
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