People are afraid of this question once they turn it inside out on themselves and others. Too many of us don’t want to think about this. Too many of us don’t want to admit that we are picking and choosing. Even if we prefer (as I do) to say “adopting and adapting,” we are doing something similar. But I think we need to face this squarely and honestly. I’ve learned that it is time to think about why and how we pick what we pick and why and how we choose what we choose.
