Joy is lighter than sorrow and escapes our grasp with a fairylike, ephemeral adieu.2 Sorrow settles in like a 280-pound boar that has no intention of ever departing. One calls us to action and the other to grace. Which is easier: to work for your salvation with the self-earned power of self-righteousness or to receive what is not deserved or owed, but freely given and fully humbling?

