Talk to strangers. Stay in touch. Stop the venting and complaining. Go outside. Spread joy. Never bother with people you hate. Don’t expect it to last forever. Everything ends and that’s okay. Stop buying useless crap. Make mistakes. Give thanks: for the ordinary and the extraordinary. Create something that wasn’t there before. Notice the color purple. Make footprints: “I was here.” Be silly. Be light. Be the kind of woman I want my daughters to be. Shit happens—count on it. Friends are more important than sex. Choose not to take things personally.