Find people who are “for” your marriage and want to help you grow together. Avoid those who play the game of “poor you, being married to that bad person.” This doesn’t help a marriage. Even further, avoid those who would like to be destructive to the bond in the guise of being helpful to you. So many affairs begin with this scenario. A wife finds a co-worker who really understands her in ways her husband can’t. She feels better, but her marriage is weaker. Your sources of love should not only be helping you but also be helping you love your mate.
