Persistent Assaults on the Spouse’s Boundary One person will say no, then the spouse will make attempt after attempt to change the other’s mind. Like a strong-willed door-to-door salesperson, the spouse will argue, wheedle, and plead until the other has been worn down. Like a child who has learned to keep asking until he hears the answer he wants, the spouse refuses to live with the boundary of the other.
I have addressed this several times.
