But basic human requirements of character are not complements. They are essentials to being a complete person. Below is a partial list of abilities that both partners must possess and that cannot be “borrowed” from each other. The ability to Connect emotionally Be vulnerable and share feelings Have an appropriate sense of power and assertiveness Say no Have initiative and drive Have at least a minimal amount of organization Be real, but not perfect Accept imperfections and have grace and forgiveness Grieve Think for oneself and express one’s opinions Learn and grow Take risks Grasp and use
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