Be a Separate Person with Your Spouse Sometimes one mate will define herself by her mate and not be her own individual soul. Then, when her spouse disagrees or makes a different decision, she personalizes the difference as an attack against her. For example, a husband will become angry with his wife for something. She will feel that he hates her and will lash back to protect herself. Her inability to be separate from her husband’s feelings is the problem. As you become more defined by your own boundaries, you will experience your mate’s feelings and decisions as having more to do with him than
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