In cases where the spouse is truly repentant, has given up the affair, and is seriously in the growth process for the long haul, the affair serves as a wake-up call for maturity. We have seen many cases in which affairs have led to greater intimacy and strength in the marriage. Even while you work on protecting your marriage from intruders, you will still have conflicts. The next chapter will help you deal successfully with the different types of conflicts that marriages face.
