At the same time, she did not minimize the sin. This is one of the most difficult things for some people. These people feel that if they are going to be full of grace and humility, they can’t be tough on the sin. But a friend of mine once said, “Go soft on the person and hard on the issue.” This is what Jessica did. She was honest, called Internet pornography sin, and talked about her hurt and betrayal, but did not let Reggie’s sin go unconfronted. She took a stance according to her values, just as we talked about in chapter 5. Couples need to take a hard stand against anything that violates
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