anymore, and there was a new look—a look of determination (and maybe hope)—on her face. She said, “Okay. I think you’re right. I think God wants me to get past the obstacles and get angry at my husband. Can you tell me how to do it?” I smiled because I live for such moments in therapy. I responded, “Yes, I can. Helping adultery victims get angry and stay angry and accomplish what must be done is one of my specialties.” Turn the page to find out what I told her to do.

