What to Do When He Says, I Don’t Love You Anymore: An Action Plan to Regain Confidence, Power and Control

by David Clarke

anymore, and there was a new look—a look of determination (and maybe hope)—on her face. She said, “Okay. I think you’re right. I think God wants me to get past the obstacles and get angry at my husband. Can you tell me how to do it?” I smiled because I live for such moments in therapy. I responded, “Yes, I can. Helping adultery victims get angry and stay angry and accomplish what must be done is one of my specialties.” Turn the page to find out what I told her to do.

The second reason an affair victim must vent her pain is to promote healing and avoid personal destruction.

My program may not save the marriage, but I believe it is the only way that has the possibility of saving it. It will also get you and your precious children through the nightmare. Your husband may go down in a ball of flame, but he won’t take you and the kids with him.