Tehanu (Earthsea Cycle, #4)

by Ursula K. Le Guin

“When has a woman power because she’s a woman? With her children, I suppose. For a while . . .” “In her house, maybe.” She looked around the kitchen. “But the doors are shut,” she said, “the doors are locked.” “Because you’re valuable.” “Oh, yes. We’re precious. So long as we’re powerless . . . I remember when I first learned that! Kossil threatened me—me, the One Priestess of the Tombs. And I realized that I was helpless. I had the honor; but she had the power, from the God-king, the man. Oh, it made me angry! And frightened me . . . Lark and I talked about this once. She said, ‘Why are men afraid of women?’” “If your strength is only the other’s weakness, you live in fear,” Ged said. “Yes; but women seem to fear their own strength, to be afraid of themselves.” “Are they ever taught to trust themselves?” Ged asked, and as he spoke Therru came in on her work again. His eyes and Tenar’s met. “No,” she said. “Trust is not what we’re taught.” She watched the child stack the wood in the box. “If power were trust,” she said. “I like that word. If it weren’t all these arrangements—one above the other—kings and masters and mages and owners—It all seems so unnecessary. Real power, real freedom, would lie in trust, not force.” “As children trust their parents,” he said. They were both silent.