strength and finds them wanting in the face of the dignity of humility and the gifts of vulnerability. Feminist spirituality encourages the kind of self-knowledge that recognizes both its strengths and its limitations. It respects the vulnerability that gives a person the capacity for pain. Then, no matter what, I can accept my weaknesses and enjoy my gifts. Then the person of the other, the gifts of the other, are always safe in my presence and sought in my life because I know that it is not necessary to diminish the other in order to
