Per Lacy, there are expanders and fragment expanders. Here’s Lacy’s checklist for an expander, all conditions required: 1. They’ve been in the exact place you’re in now, whether it’s struggling, or lack, or limit, or not having what they want. 2. They’ve gone on to become successful in, own, or embody what you’re calling in. 3. Their success track feels believable and obtainable to you. 4. They give you an aha moment that sounds egotistical, but it’s not. You know you’ve been expanded on a subconscious level when you have an aha moment where you go, “Oh…oh my gosh, if they accomplished that,
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