according to standpoint theory, say something along the following lines: “I do not understand your experiences and I am in no position to evaluate your demands. But since I recognize that you are more oppressed than me, I will endeavor to be a good ally and support what you ask for.”
This is why i can't support feminist causes anymore. Because I am privileged, I must be voiceless and defer. Feminists are telling women to be silent and submissive.